1st timer and just wanted thoughts on the safety of backpage.  My biggest fear is the authorities, so would you trust an ad?  And does anyone have a suggestion for a first time experience looking for extremly discreet and total GFE experience in South Jersey. A trip to Greece would be great but not necessary. Thanks

For the most part BP is not a good place to start.

Get TER VIP and research the reviews and do a search for a gal to your liking.
You sat South Joisey, not sure if you are near the Philly area, as you may wish to check that out too

Hope that helps some


Thank you
2013 = 28

thanks for your thoughts I appreciate it

First,just set the money down and don't mention why.
Second,let her say to get comfortable,then get naked.

Also,I found if you ask them politely to touch them,"inappropriately" and they say yes,
then do.

Remember a cop can't make the first move,or let you touch them.

The biggest thing you have to fear about BackPage are the fakes..
So ask for a description on the phone,then be prepared to leave if
its not the same person (easier said than done sometimes if you are horny).

Don't come in drunk either,because if the stuff hits the fan,be prepared to call the cops.
You will get your money back if they squirreled it away.

Been ripped off twice,both times by black girls misrepresenting themselves. (not robbed,just disappointed and feeling bad later)
Never again.

Agreed. Do your homework. Personally, BP and TER go hand in hand. I'm fairly new to this as well. I find my category easier on BP but immediately check for reviews on TER. I haven't yet chosen one from BP without at least one review.

IMHO I think TER is a better membership than other places like N. Reviews or Ec.

safe as in" LE = NO
safe as in ,do most of thous girls have Pimps that might take your wallet' = a good chance
safe as in a cope guys might just roll you= possible

You could take a chance then tell us how it went LOLLLLO
from a providers point of view, I always got a shit guy calling me so I stop placing ads there
GOOD LUCK, xoxoxo

For me, it is a great alternative because I am a new provider and hobbyists are reluctant to see me without reviews (or that is what I sense).  Backpage allows me another route to advertise as I am building my reputation on more legit sites.  I get a lot of BS from backpage that I have to filter through and much haggling which is annoying.  As far as LE, I've only being doing this for a couple of months but it sounds like there is no sure way to avoid LE risk based on each person's story is different.  I think the risk is always there no matter what.  I hear about robberies, just like when Craigslist was an outlet.  That is what I worry about more than LE.

You can limit the risk by plugging the phone number listed on backpage into google and this site.  If it leads to multiple TER reviews you're safe -- unless they're lousy.  If google shows hits going months back or in multiple locations you're probably safe fro L.E.  You may also find that the number has multiple pictures accociated with it which would make me suspicious of a bait n switch