I have been a "hobbyist" since 1978 - never had a problem with a provider; except with ones who post a photo that is NOT of them. When this  happens, I am always a gentleman, declining service upon arrival realizing the old bait & switch, which i really despise & happens ALL TO FREQUENTLY here in No. Jersey. You really have NO recourse. Recently, I have NOT been receiving return correspondence, phone calls, requests to make appointments - - etc.. I read in a recent review or discussion the existance of a "black list" in NJ, if you piss off a provider, they can post your # for other providers to avoid a potential client? Can anyone confirm this? I'd be really pissed to find out i'm on that list - - thx!
BP

most of these sites have providers and reviewer only boards where technically you can talk freely, but in reality they leak like a sive , guys and girls get ratted out on those boards almost as quickly as they post the info. On TER you need ten reviews to join the reviewers only board and yes we discuss our experiences. Likewise the ladies gab about us all the time . Obviously Both boards contain lots of one sided stories.

the blacklist sites that arent on these sites are seperate businesses that are national( not just jersey) with names like " national blacklist site and verifyhim.com" ( there are others). There have been literally hundreds of threads on TER about how providers abuse these sites and trust me they do

hope that helps

and see if anything comes up?  

I am all for keeping everyone safe, but I am also all against bait and switch and hoping you haven't been blacklisted as a personal vendetta