I will not use names here but let me do tell you a reverse story...

All of my screening and appointment bookings is done through Chloe, however if someone messages me on TER I will generally respond and ask that they contact her directly as I am not local to the area and when home do not have much correspondence with anyone.  

So last week I received an appointment request through my website, the gentleman didn't pick a day that I was in New England and all appointment forms are set to auto forward to Chloe. I didn't worry about needing to respond. However that afternoon the gentleman in question messaged me directly on TER asking for an appointment. I explained he had to contact Chloe and went from there. Once I saw him on my appointment calendar for later in the week, since he is not active on any boards, I read his reviews.  

I was genuinely concerned that I wasn't going to be able to provide him with the kind of appointment that he desired. In fact I was so distraught about it, I messaged him back and kindly explained to him that I would love to still see him, but was very concerned his appetite for certain items would not be getting filled. He never responded back to me but did come to his appointment. When he arrived, I needed to be fully honest with him or else it would have made for a bad time. I sat him down and kindly asked if he had read my email. He stated he had not, but asked what it was about. I told him that I will read a few of the person's last reviews to make sure that it will be a good fit, see if I can get a feel for what they may be looking for, or even if their personality will come through. He said he understood my concerns but still wanted to proceed.  

Overall I think the appointment went well. I did very much so enjoy his company and after we got that out of the way, I can only hope he appreciated my honestly, concern, and candor.  

For me, I actually enjoy this work. I am not a full time provider and doubt that I will ever be again. But the review system is a two way street. I do think that if a provider is a bait & switch, just poor in all areas from presentation to performance, or is misrepresenting in any way then by all means. But also think about it you may have not done enough research to make a good match.  

Just my two cents. I do hope you all stay happy and warm. I hate to hear of negative things happening to both the men and ladies. Just try to pair yourself with someone of like mind and it should just be a natural fit.  

Yours-
Kristi