I think it is a matter of nerve. Adding toys to the equation requires that a certain level of trust exists amongst the participants that is beyond just the intimate nature of two people being together naked in a bed. I think it is even more so if the toy is being used by the woman on the man. There are some very complex emotions at play when a man makes himself vulnerable and somehat submissive to a woman in that way.
That being said...bring the toys along anyways. You never know. Once your man opens up (pun not intended..but amusing nonetheless) to the possibilities of this kind of play then you should ride him like a two dollar pony at the county fair.
I always have toys I have yet to have anyone use them on me though. I did peg my ex after we broke up but that was just for my own satisfaction. I don't use anything on anyone who doesn't ask for it. I just find it odd that people who ask me to bring toys to use on me never use them. I am reading this as you personally want to fuck me with a dildo.
Posted By: FlyNavy
I think it is a matter of nerve. Adding toys to the equation requires that a certain level of trust exists amongst the participants that is beyond just the intimate nature of two people being together naked in a bed. I think it is even more so if the toy is being used by the woman on the man. There are some very complex emotions at play when a man makes himself vulnerable and somehat submissive to a woman in that way.
That being said...bring the toys along anyways. You never know. Once your man opens up (pun not intended..but amusing nonetheless) to the possibilities of this kind of play then you should ride him like a two dollar pony at the county fair.
And both times the lady used the vibe on herself while we were having sex- first time we were doggie and she put the vibe on her clit while I penetrated her vaginally, second time it was another lady who had a 'rabbit' on her Clit while she rode me CG- both times I had GREAT orgasms, and she did too! The toys don't necessarily need to be used on the male directly to enhance the experience!
Posted By: realcrimsonlass
When I bring them nobody uses them. When I don't people request them. Do you see them and lose your nerve? Im just curious.
I personally like toys, I'd bring them if requested. Some guys like them, some may be shy to use them on the lady. I do think the girl has to know the guy to make it enjoyable- for the both! With that said, I have to buy a new vibrator !!!
Xoxox Vanessa
Posted By: vernjones
And both times the lady used the vibe on herself while we were having sex- first time we were doggie and she put the vibe on her clit while I penetrated her vaginally, second time it was another lady who had a 'rabbit' on her Clit while she rode me CG- both times I had GREAT orgasms, and she did too! The toys don't necessarily need to be used on the male directly to enhance the experience!
Posted By: realcrimsonlass
When I bring them nobody uses them. When I don't people request them. Do you see them and lose your nerve? Im just curious.
I always have toys I have yet to have anyone use them on me though. I did peg my ex after we broke up but that was just for my own satisfaction. I don't use anything on anyone who doesn't ask for it. I just find it odd that people who ask me to bring toys to use on me never use them. I am reading this as you personally want to fuck me with a dildo.
Posted By: FlyNavy
I think it is a matter of nerve. Adding toys to the equation requires that a certain level of trust exists amongst the participants that is beyond just the intimate nature of two people being together naked in a bed. I think it is even more so if the toy is being used by the woman on the man. There are some very complex emotions at play when a man makes himself vulnerable and somehat submissive to a woman in that way.
That being said...bring the toys along anyways. You never know. Once your man opens up (pun not intended..but amusing nonetheless) to the possibilities of this kind of play then you should ride him like a two dollar pony at the county fair.
I always have toys I have yet to have anyone use them on me though. I did peg my ex after we broke up but that was just for my own satisfaction. I don't use anything on anyone who doesn't ask for it. I just find it odd that people who ask me to bring toys to use on me never use them. I am reading this as you personally want to fuck me with a dildo.
Posted By: FlyNavy
I think it is a matter of nerve. Adding toys to the equation requires that a certain level of trust exists amongst the participants that is beyond just the intimate nature of two people being together naked in a bed. I think it is even more so if the toy is being used by the woman on the man. There are some very complex emotions at play when a man makes himself vulnerable and somehat submissive to a woman in that way.
That being said...bring the toys along anyways. You never know. Once your man opens up (pun not intended..but amusing nonetheless) to the possibilities of this kind of play then you should ride him like a two dollar pony at the county fair.
I personally like toys, I'd bring them if requested. Some guys like them, some may be shy to use them on the lady. I do think the girl has to know the guy to make it enjoyable- for the both! With that said, I have to buy a new vibrator !!!
Xoxox Vanessa
Posted By: vernjones
And both times the lady used the vibe on herself while we were having sex- first time we were doggie and she put the vibe on her clit while I penetrated her vaginally, second time it was another lady who had a 'rabbit' on her Clit while she rode me CG- both times I had GREAT orgasms, and she did too! The toys don't necessarily need to be used on the male directly to enhance the experience!
Posted By: realcrimsonlass
When I bring them nobody uses them. When I don't people request them. Do you see them and lose your nerve? Im just curious.
Absolutely! Toys can be a wonderful addition to intensify a sexy encounter. Toys are not required.. but are so much fun when they are included in playtime.
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