I use my TER name for verification all the time, and can often avoid giving out my real name this way.
A girl can refuse to see you for any reason, or for no reason at all. Plenty of girls to choose from so don't be offended if/when you are turned away. At least you did not have to deal with a last minute cancellation or NCNS.
Continue writing honest reviews, and you will build your reputation as an honest reviewer.
In the past I had some poor appointments with agency girls and was able to work something out with the owner/manager to avoid writing a bad review. This may be a thing of the past and may not work at all if you are not a regular with the agency.
Writing a bad review does hurt a girl's business and should be avoided if possible. Also, if your review is out of line with other reviewers that says more about you than about her.
That's my slightly more than $0.02 for today.
Last week I made an appointment with a lady that I have been wanting to see for awhile. I provided her with the requested veification info including my TER id. She said she would see me and would e-mail me the day before with her location. A couple days before the appointment, I got an e-mail saying that she had been reading my TER reviews and noticed that I had written some bad reviews. I told her that my reviews were completely honest. She then canceled my appointment saying she couldn't chance getting a bad review.
The moral of the story is ... don't give out your TER id for verification purposes.
maybe you are better off not seeing her anyhow.
I was better off. I saw another lady and had a great time.
Glad you had a great time with someone else ... i've been in a place where I saw someone who gave mixed reviews and had almost didn't see him NOT BECAUSE I don't have confidence in myself but that some TER can be douchey, spiteful and hard to please even when you damn near literally bend over backwards to please and with this one guy I just like that girl addressed him about some of his most recent reviews before seeing me were consistenly bad & ended up seeing him and I do what I always do (a damn good "job") and got a pretty good review out of it and still see him every now and then. Same scenario happened with another gents and in this case I again went out of my way to make this person happy but they just couldn't be pleased and he'd given his share of bad reviews also and that didn't end so well on my end (he was very spiteful in his review and laughed about it via PM's).
Point is maybe keep that in mind how it can look on our end when for some of us full or part-time is our livelihood & reputation and just keep being honest with your reviews and if one booking goes through just be sure to have another great plan B (don't confuse that with double-booking) like you did this time. BUT do not tell guys to not give out their ter id for verification purposes that might hurt more than help.
I wish they could, but that's just not realistic. Let's be honest...a 5 is average. So if they get a 7 or 8, they really should be ecstatic.
There are way too many reviews here that give 7s for looks when they should be 6s. Don't even get me started on the 8s and 9s that get handed out here.
I know girls gotta make a living, but let's be realistic.
Since she cancelled with you because she saw some less than stellar reviews you have written why don't you give her name? That's what this forum is for. She already cancelled on you I would believe that you won't try to see her again so you have nothing to lose and it gives the rest of us hobbiests the real deal on this provider. Believe me if you did something wrong to or with her you'd be outed by her.
I think this belongs under the main thread. I didn't have a problem with a provider canceling on me because of bad reviews.
At least...I don't think so!
bottom line. Personally I would see bad reviews as a challenge but most don't. I would say outing her for not seeing is in poor taste. But I also believe that the gentleman should continue to write honest reviews as there are way too many ass kissers on TER. For the record the numbers dont matter its the content in the review itself.
Just my 2 cents
I use my TER name for verification all the time, and can often avoid giving out my real name this way.
A girl can refuse to see you for any reason, or for no reason at all. Plenty of girls to choose from so don't be offended if/when you are turned away. At least you did not have to deal with a last minute cancellation or NCNS.
Continue writing honest reviews, and you will build your reputation as an honest reviewer.
In the past I had some poor appointments with agency girls and was able to work something out with the owner/manager to avoid writing a bad review. This may be a thing of the past and may not work at all if you are not a regular with the agency.
Writing a bad review does hurt a girl's business and should be avoided if possible. Also, if your review is out of line with other reviewers that says more about you than about her.
That's my slightly more than $0.02 for today.
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