There's a new poll listed on the front page of the site, regarding BBFS. Something worth checking out.

Also....as of tomorrow....new policy in place.
The discussion of BBFS (bareback full service) will no longer be forbidden on the site, or from reviews.

I'm sure everyone will have their opinions of this....so let's take it in stride and see how things pan out.

Thoughts?

DD

Ok...everyone take a breath. Deep one.
Now let it oooooout. Sloooowly.
Repeat.
You good? I know I am.

My PM box has been BLOWING UP here recently.
Let's clear this up slowly and rationally.

First....TER is NOT endorsing, rationalizing, or telling everyone to toss out the covers and boink bareback.
Do we have that?
Do we need to repeat it?
Please.....PLEASE....use your rational heads.


Now that we have that established....let's discuss what this means.
Whether you are in denial or not....BBFS happens every day. Deal with it.
Somewhere....someone in the hobby is doing it right now.
Maybe it's a drunken one-time thing. Maybe it's someone "special". Maybe there's a "connection". Maybe someone offers it for extra pesos. Maybe someone does it because they know they have something and want to hurt the opposite sex. Maybe it's for any number of reasons....but let's be adult and at least admit that it happens.

When it's not allowed to be discussed or reviewed....we have NO WAY of knowing who is doing it in our little community.
Don't think the community is little?
Just stop for a minute and think about the "six degrees of separation" thing. The odds are pretty good that almost everyone on this board is "connected".
That guy or gal you think is a douche....or you argue with all the time? Guess what....you're "tunnel buddies" in some way.
I know....makes you ill in some ways...huh? lol.

When it IS allowed to be discussed...at least we know who's doing it. We can then make INFORMED choices as ADULTS. Right?

So...to recap....TER is NOT endorsing the behavior or telling you to do it.
They are admitting that it happens...and taking a bold step to move out of the shadows of blind ignorance....and allow us all to help each other.

Hope this clears things up a bit...and diminishes the 'panic'.

Just sayin'
DD

DD, I agree.


I guess with the understanding that is available in some meetings, the discussion while disturbing my save some guys from those that offer it.

Also any reviewer discussing that he has taken advantage of the offering my find a smaller pool of potential new providers.

Just took the poll and 42% would! Yikes now that's insane.

I really think that we must talk about what is really happening.
To pretend that bare back does not happen is a mistake.
There are many out there that are willing to assume the risk.

It will be very interesting how this progresses.

   We can never know who is doing BB, but if someone openly admits to it, yes we can make informed choices.

    That said, not using a cover is literally taking your life in your hands.

     Be safe.

Why even take the chance?

Why go visit a prostitute in the first place?
Why go sky diving?
Why get drunk?
Why drive above the speed limit?

The answer is , "Why not."

I definately agree that it should be discussed & reviewed.. Lets you kno the risk of seeing someone. If its hidden no one can make rational decisions