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sexymarafouru See my TER Reviews 1259 reads
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You may well have booked in advance, the lady may have just arrived and you are her first visitor and she considerately took a shower upon arrival.  Couple of other valid points...

She ran errands, grabbed some food, went shopping, worked out, etc. since her last appt.  Not every lady books back to back, some have plenty of time in between appts to do other things...other than sit in front of the computer and answer emails, answer the phone, or reply to text messages.

She may not dry her hair...I know I don't, I don't own a blow dryer as I prefer to let it dry naturally.

Don't always assume she just jumped out of the shower after finishing up with someone else, and if she did, she had the consideration to shower vs. washing up.  For me, my hair is generally damp to slightly damp for a couple of hours...I will use a blow dryer sometimes at the hotel if I feel it is dripping wet.

Consider too, gents who request to take a shower, do you expect the girl to go full make up on and hair perfectly done for when you first walk through the door.  Anyone that has meet me knows I'm not big into make up and spending hours on my hair, I know it's appreciated but it's not really me!

All this talking about blowing and dripping wet has got me, well, dripping wet!

Mara

gardener951171 reads

There have been a number of times when I entered the room with a provider for an appointment scheduled well in advance only to find her with dripping wet hair.  One the one hand it means that she just got out of the shower and that is great.  Everyone loves a squeaky clean provider but I just don't care for wet hair.  If I am trying to squeeze in an appointment at the last minute, I understand the wet hair.  But if I have scheduled well in advance, I prefer that the provider be fully prepared including drying her hair before I get there.

What are your thoughts on this issue?  I guess it is really no big deal but having dry hair is one of those little things that I truly appreciate. How do you all feel about it?

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mrfisher908 reads

give her a good shampooing while she goes down on you.

I just love it.

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Foodyguy1020 reads

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codiboy101900 reads

Lets face it we all know what kinda business we're all involved in here. I would rather smell freshly shampooed hair then the reminants of the last guys cologne!!!!!!! If your with a reputable provider then the benefit if the doubt has to be given to her that she wouldn't be just trying to cram one appt after another. I happen to prefer a lady dripping wet out of the shower myself so I may actually request it:):):). That's just my preference though I can understand your concern but your gonna have to accept some things being as the alternative is much less pleasent. I will always take a fresh out of the shower over the other option of dirty and smelling of cologne.

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sexymarafouru1260 reads

You may well have booked in advance, the lady may have just arrived and you are her first visitor and she considerately took a shower upon arrival.  Couple of other valid points...

She ran errands, grabbed some food, went shopping, worked out, etc. since her last appt.  Not every lady books back to back, some have plenty of time in between appts to do other things...other than sit in front of the computer and answer emails, answer the phone, or reply to text messages.

She may not dry her hair...I know I don't, I don't own a blow dryer as I prefer to let it dry naturally.

Don't always assume she just jumped out of the shower after finishing up with someone else, and if she did, she had the consideration to shower vs. washing up.  For me, my hair is generally damp to slightly damp for a couple of hours...I will use a blow dryer sometimes at the hotel if I feel it is dripping wet.

Consider too, gents who request to take a shower, do you expect the girl to go full make up on and hair perfectly done for when you first walk through the door.  Anyone that has meet me knows I'm not big into make up and spending hours on my hair, I know it's appreciated but it's not really me!

All this talking about blowing and dripping wet has got me, well, dripping wet!

Mara

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codiboy101990 reads

Hahaha Mara!!!! I agree completely.

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GraceShepherd949 reads

IMO as a provider a lady should be clean, fresh, hair dry and done. Makeup done and clothes or lingerie and heels on prior to you ever even knocking on the door regardless of what her day was like before you. As professionals it is up to us to schedule our day comfortably enough to allow for showering between clients and so forth. Enough time to also provide us time to grab a bite to eat and run an errand as well and retain our discretion level appropriately.
Having very long hair myself it takes hours for it to dry without blow drying it. I simply plan accordingly and make adjustments to my own schedule as necessary.

You should always feel as though she is refreshed, you are welcome and happily received and there shouldn't be any sign that anyone was there before you. Little touches and details do matter especially in this intimate business.

Cheers,
Grace

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gardener95769 reads

Thanks Grace and SexyMara for your thoughtful replies.  I appreciate hearing a provider's perspective.  Some of the other respondents didn't fully understand my question (my fault).  I wasn't asking whether I  preferred a provider with wet hair or one that smelled like her last client.  I was inquiring about whether or not it bothered anyone that a provider hadn't budgeted her time well enough to be fully ready for you on your arrival.  You are paying a lot for that session and it is not unreal to have certain expectations beyond the sexual ones.  I am not going to go as far as saying that having wet hair when a client arrives is disrespectful but I don't think it is the classiest of moves a provider can make.

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codiboy101804 reads

I understood your question. And stated hopefully your with a provider that would have reasonable excuse for the wet hair when you showed up. As in she's trustworthy. I just stated afterwards that I liked a lady in wet hair is all. I think both ladies answers were very informative for there side of things.

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powderpuff952 reads

I always think of the chance that the last vist left her with a mess in her hair. Otherwise she probably would have been carefull not to wash her hair just before a new client arrival.

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Genie247906 reads


And because its so long I always have it wrapped up in a bun or ponytail. I will wear my hair up until the last few minutes before our meeting. So my hair is always a bit damp when I answer the door. Just because I want those sexy curls to turn you on when you walk in that door.

(I think the dripping wet part should be just up to you and I)

Xoxo,
G

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gardener95659 reads

Yes, Genie, you do have lovely hair!  I don't remember it being damp so I guess I will have to check the next time we get together.  I just remember other things about our meeting...

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hobbyhorse68888 reads

One time I had a provider answer the door in nothing more than a towel on her head. She refused to take it off during our session and got upset when it unraveled during RCG.

I have to agree that I prefer dry hair over wet hair so that I can admire it.  Yes, it should be clean and I wouldn't assume anything about a provider's prior activities based on dampness of her hair.

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Pavliena646 reads

May I ask you ? if not secret of course .. ar we talking here about one hour for 300 or  2 hours 600  or you took nice appointment as 1000 ?

Am I mistaken or not that here no one actually brought it up the fact that ladies coming  there to make some roses?
and it doesnot matter if you booked month ahead an hour for 300..

she still will see other man in order to be in surplus after hotel travel and etc ( even if she see you from home - your 300 a day would not  make her day - she will  see more gentlemen - so form here wet hair)

want dry hair  - take more hours with real roses and she be NOT only  with with dry hair but may be  even  after hairdressers !
May be in new outfits just for you .. and you know - some nice gentlemen even depositing for outfit request s fresh new and not running stockings ..not washed  whole week ..

so simple like that :)

I just first what come in to my mind - if she was working hard or you treat her as  a date ?
If she is working - then yes - appreciate that she is at list clean and fresh-

I did read  horrible posting s that provider just spaying bed sheets with Lysol .. before  offer you to take your pants off and  lay your jewels  on such bed .. so ..  have head on shoulder  why she poor girl has wet hair .. make  her happy she will give you 100 more then you invested
Spoil her and yourself with the  best.





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