New England

Last minute dates
escalade1964 65 Reviews 439 reads
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rarely work out for me.

I only try if I have been cancelled on.  

I also would only call ladies that I have seen before or we
have had some sort of communications prior so she feels safe.

As someone who frequently does not know that he will have free time until free time is at hand, I am wondering if the lovely ladies who frequent this board would share their views on last minute calls.  I lived in Oregon for a while and one of the boards out there had an ongoing discussion for last minute availability that providers could post to.  Consequently, there was never much problem in calling someone on short notice (especially if you were already screened).  But since moving east, I have gotten the distinct impression that even asking the question is considered to be out of bounds or, worse, can be viewed as an indication that the caller is LE.  I know a lot of websites say that it is cool to call and check, but I am wondering if that is really the way it is.  I for one am never offended if the answer is "not now" but are you offended that someone even asks the question?  Do you see it as disrespectful of your time?

I happen to be free, and available during the time that you are as well.  Although with advance notice you are able to have more time to be prepared for the time spent together.  In addition, it allows more time for the screening process since at times it could take much longer than others.  However, if the person has already been screened that makes it that much easier as long as you also have the time to see them.

rarely work out for me.

I only try if I have been cancelled on.  

I also would only call ladies that I have seen before or we
have had some sort of communications prior so she feels safe.

If you are screened in advance, it is a big plus....screening takes time.  When I am at home, I often need notice to shower and dress properly, but when I am traveling (as I will be when in CT), if the time is open, I am usually showered and minutes from being "decent" if not already booked.

....are welcomed if I have incall available and granted how quickly you can be screened. I generally only need 1hr to get myself together after that (after i'm comfortable with my screening).

Screening is important to me but...
I am happy to have real hot, spur of the moment, rendezvous with people I have seen in the past...BUT I do feel bad when I have to say 'I am not available right now' - mostly because I know I am going to miss a good time with the person!

I find that when people request me with no lead time, they tend to not be serious, bc they know they aren't  giving you enough time to screen them or to even make it to see them in such a short amount of time.
When I get such a "request" I mark them in my phone as "not serious" so I can skip their calls in the future.

Btw,  I really appreciate my considerate clients.

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