I have to disagree. You my friend are very lucky. Thanks to ter, and p411, and date-check besides that it's a risk. Plenty of guys call and give me provider names I call I am polite the providers click on me just straight heartless. Or clients have their number one girl and she might be touring or unavailable and they are afraid she will get jealous. Screening is extremely hard for me. I am very friendly and always give references even to my top clients. They are not my husband or boyfriend what do I care? As far as employment that's a hard one to get especially out of a married man. that's why I rely on p411, ter members that are white listed, and date-check. People think EG is great but a lot of guys go on EG and BP and don't want to reveal anything. I have a white pages app in my phone to verify their name, I google the phone number and address and sometimes take my chances with this. This job nobody is free from a get out of jail pass anyone can pose as a legit client. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year. I wish more girls would be for each other not against and help with a reference. It could all be so much easier