This has probably come up a lot here, so sorry for a repeat...

How well do providers treat first timers? Bascially looking for someone to handle the situtation where I've never been to a provider and have limited experience anyway I guess everyone has to start somewhere. Probably just nerves...

uhm..come see me!!!
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My advice is to not do it independantly.  It is too dangerous.  Why have to make excuses for 100 calls that won't generate any $$, when you can have one call from your service and know that that call will produce $$.  Also not safe to do it alone.  Go to newenglandcompanions dot com!