Things in my neck of the woods seem to be trending towards houses where several providers are available and all advertising on the same phone number. The whole idea of these houses makes me shy away even with multiple positive reviews and very tempting "100% real" photos. It seems like this house arrangement would be very tempting for LE or to surveil and then come down with a whole slew of warrants and the likely newspaper headlines which would follow. Also, they would be an obvious choice for john-shaming zealots.
I feel that contacting independent providers with good reviews lessens the risks. It is also more likely that a longer lasting and mutually satisfactory relationship could result. My question is, am I being overly cautious? I am new to this and sitting on the knife's edge between caution and the zest for some fun adventures.
The choice to stay away is somewhat easier in that many of the "house" providers are younger and less established providers. In fact, these new girls seem to appear and disappear in rapid succession. New to the business probably means a rushed, awkward, and not very satisfying experience for the client. I have no experience to base that provider-client dynamic on, being rather new to this myself, just a hunch. Those with more experience are very welcome to weigh in.
I find that I am attracted to and much more at ease with women in the 35-50 age bracket than those girls in their 20's. For me, a woman with all the confidence, experience, and soft curves of a woman in her prime sexual years is much more exciting. I have experienced younger woman and found them lacking in that smoldering sensuality that only a mature woman can bring to the bedroom. Curvy hips, full breasts, and above all confidence is what sparks my interest. Confident women experience sex as something shared instead of something done to them them. Thoughts?
Your last sentence rings true and you hit it right on the nose. I don't want to preform a sex act on you or to you, I want to engage in an erotic encounter WITH you. there is a very big difference. Those who see it as preforming a service they see us as providers, which is a word I don't particularly like. It confers one providing a service instead of two ppl in an erotic tryst. The mentality has to be there first to let yourself go to that place where you ARE both involved and vested. I am in business but it is one unlike any other. I do this for money but only cuz I really like it. the romance aspect of it the involvement getting caught up in and swept away in the theatrics that are an Intimately Passionate tryst. For that Im all in and love to play with my friends who also see it that way as well.
Posted By: OzymandiasMe
The choice to stay away is somewhat easier in that many of the "house" providers are younger and less established providers. In fact, these new girls seem to appear and disappear in rapid succession. New to the business probably means a rushed, awkward, and not very satisfying experience for the client. I have no experience to base that provider-client dynamic on, being rather new to this myself, just a hunch. Those with more experience are very welcome to weigh in.
I find that I am attracted to and much more at ease with women in the 35-50 age bracket than those girls in their 20's. For me, a woman with all the confidence, experience, and soft curves of a woman in her prime sexual years is much more exciting. I have experienced younger woman and found them lacking in that smoldering sensuality that only a mature woman can bring to the bedroom. Curvy hips, full breasts, and above all confidence is what sparks my interest. Confident women experience sex as something shared instead of something done to them them. Thoughts?
I almost always choose more mature women because they bring a lot more to the overall experience. I have had a few young woman that were great, but the only disappointments have always been the younger ones. Mature woman know how to take care of a man. And I always chose individuals over agencies. Most of the busts I have heard about have been agencies. And I prefer that all my money goes to the lady I am seeing, as opposed to an agency taking a cut.
You have definitely captured the essence of what I look for in an encounter. A shared experience in which the business transaction is understood but treated almost an afterthought during the visit. The focus is on being in the moment, even if it is a fantasy moment. After all we are sharing one of the most intimate and intense of human physical interactions. It is almost impossible for me to not connect emotionally (even if it is so briefly) to you. want to suspend the reality of life and fall willingly into that fantasy moment with you That is what I seek...the intimacy and not necessarily just the physical act. Does that even make any sense or am I overindulging a romantic sensibility?
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