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Babes4Me 81 Reviews 1325 reads
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I know at least three providers that have offered, and it honestly ruins it for me because all I can think of is that while I'm doing DATY, someone else left their jism in there an hour or two or even yesterday.. besides that, what happened to the safety risk for the provider AND for their customers.

Ladies, offering BB FS should never be an option.. though I don't believe the providers I know that offer it even have access to this discussion board.. it just isn't right, so I'm glad there are lots of other wonderful choices amongst the providers in the area!  And guys, taking advantage of it, then think about whomever else might have and what they left behind that you're tasting, touching, immersed in...  

Aren't the rest of you scared about this even if it's just a small, small percentage of the hobby industry?  I am.....

Dickstah954 reads

I agree totally. After seeing a recent post,  I decided to no longer see a really good provider. It really bothers me, cause she was reallllly good!!!

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TamsenC906 reads

I hear this more & more lately. Scary. (Eww!)

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codiboy101962 reads

Wether it's true or not I'm not sure but there's been a gal recently in ME posting on BP for P4P and at the same time posting on Craigslist in the W4M and MW4M. Kind of suspicious don't you think!!!!!! That gal is now having guys post warnings all over Craigslist about being positive for a pile of STDs including g HIV. Now it could be lies but are you willing to take that chance? Seems like she may have been burned while charging and being stupid offered some BBFS catches something and now is taking it out on others to be vengeful. Now whether these guys posting warnings on Craigslist are lying or not I don't know but really not worth the risk and a provider offering BBFS is REALLY not worth the risk!!!!

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TamsenC785 reads

Where in ME was this? PM/email me if u can.

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codiboy101759 reads

She was advertising on Back Page working out of Auburn and that's where the 1st reports of positive STD tests from guys came from. They started posting on BP every time her ad went up then she apparently switched to Craigslist W4M and MW4M in auburn 1st then Portland. Again quickly reports and ads from multiple guys started popping up saying the same thing only now she had a guy working with her robbing you too. Not sure of her name but she has long dark hair, slim build and a tattoo of the sun around her belly button. She's older too early 40's I believe. The guys posting warnings are very adamant and persistent that's for sure so sounds like something to stay away from for sure!!!!! That's why people need to use their heads for something other then a hat rack. BB sex with anyone never the less a provider or a casual encounter come on your putting everyone at danger then. Without being in a committed LTR just shouldn't happen. It's also why in my mind you should stick to safe quality well put together providers who know what they are doing and do not only whats best but whats just responsible.

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codiboy101643 reads

Ooops I had hit the PM square but went to public post anyways. Well either way I guess it's good for everyone to see that anyways. I think she was actually reviewed on this site. When I get a chance I'll look back a little and try to find the reviews.

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TrulyMsMocha686 reads

I hear about it being offered more than I care to (read of a few instances a month around different boards and seen it blatantly in a few reviews too). I honestly think some people just want to die (die slow). No thrill or desire for me wanting to screw a client raw especially not if but WHEN there IS an EXTREMELY high chance he is doing to another provider (or "civilian"). A few mins of bbfs "fun" isn't worth a pricey lifetime regimen of antiretroviral therapy (not to mention the even higher risk bbfs has for others std's).  
Guys: sorry no you're not that special she's only doing it with you.  
Ladies: no you are not that special he's doing this only with you and if you think you'll keep him as your regular away from other ladies because you are the only wet warm place in the world giving it up to him raw *buzzer sound*.... WRONG.
 

Posted By: Mb_Maine
I know at least three providers that have offered, and it honestly ruins it for me because all I can think of is that while I'm doing DATY, someone else left their jism in there an hour or two or even yesterday.. besides that, what happened to the safety risk for the provider AND for their customers.  
   
 Ladies, offering BB FS should never be an option.. though I don't believe the providers I know that offer it even have access to this discussion board.. it just isn't right, so I'm glad there are lots of other wonderful choices amongst the providers in the area!  And guys, taking advantage of it, then think about whomever else might have and what they left behind that you're tasting, touching, immersed in...  
   
 Aren't the rest of you scared about this even if it's just a small, small percentage of the hobby industry?  I am.....

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duncan8770 reads

Time to stop guessing and post links to these dangerous ladies.

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codiboy101754 reads

I would gladly post her ad if it pops up again. Her reviews have been pulled here and the warnings have been flagged on CL. Will gladly post them if I come across them again.

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GraceShepherd855 reads

I absolutely agree! These situations are all to frightening and info sharing to protect everyone on both sides of the play fence is very important to keeping everyone safe. I certainly do not want to be playing with any partners of these gals. My health and safety are far more important than a few benjamins.  
It disgusts me to think anyone would risk their life for a little cash or because they think it will feel better.  
No wonder I have dreams about walking into an outcall in hazmat suit!

eek,
Grace

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duncan8682 reads

I choose to play with ladies who respect safety, as do I. It's the hobbist who spends most of his time with girls of questionable morals than jumps into bed with a ter lady that worries me.

 

Posted By: GraceShepherd
I absolutely agree! These situations are all to frightening and info sharing to protect everyone on both sides of the play fence is very important to keeping everyone safe. I certainly do not want to be playing with any partners of these gals. My health and safety are far more important than a few benjamins.

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Posted By: duncan8
I choose to play with ladies who respect safety, as do I. It's the hobbist who spends most of his time with girls of questionable morals than jumps into bed with a ter lady that worries me.  
   
   
It is why I try to avoid ladies who post on BP only. Most of them have questionable reputations.

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CindyGold867 reads

business that all of you boys were doing with her doesn't carry risks as well! Just saying.

Related Link: http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsforstds/f/Can-I-Get-An-Std-During-Dry-Humping-From-S...

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GraceShepherd636 reads

They like to try that crap like all of us are stupid enough to play that game, most know better. You've got to play safely and be very aware of who your partners are playing with. There are many I simply won't play with because of their habits and behavior.  

I strongly suggest we all get with the program here and stick with those who are practicing safely and testing regularly, as well as respecting their health and boundaries. They will respect their play partners much more. Safe anonymous testing is readily available. If you provide or hobby you should be actively testing. Be proactive with your sexual health instead of reactive so you aren't on the receiving end of bad news.

Grac

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Posted By: GraceShepherd
They like to try that crap like all of us are stupid enough to play that game, most know better. You've got to play safely and be very aware of who your partners are playing with. There are many I simply won't play with because of their habits and behavior.  
   
 I strongly suggest we all get with the program here and stick with those who are practicing safely and testing regularly, as well as respecting their health and boundaries. They will respect their play partners much more. Safe anonymous testing is readily available. If you provide or hobby you should be actively testing. Be proactive with your sexual health instead of reactive so you aren't on the receiving end of bad news.  
   
 Grace  
   
 
Amen to that!!!!!! This whole topic makes me uneasy. I'm not the nervous type for the most part but I think about this alot leading into appts. I have a very good relationship with the 2 ladies I see and they are very up front and open with me about that stuff so that's always a comforting thing but in the back of my head I still think about the what ifs. I would probably hobby more if this stuff wasn't always a thought in my mind. It tends to hold me back which is a good thing and makes me think with the big head not the little one.

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CindyGold638 reads

At least not in a knowledgeable, safe, comfortable, and judgement free setting! I got really spoiled when I lived in western MA- I used the same Ob-Gyn at the same Northampton based community clinic for years and YEARS. This women is a true gem and I will gladly share her info with anyone who wants it via PM. I was COMPLETELY candid with her about "the business" and she never treated me with anything less than warmth, kindness, dignity, and respect. JUST ONCE, I ventured to their affiliate clinic down in Springfield... NEVER AGAIN!

I was APPALLED by the unproffesional behavior of the female doctor I saw... While asking me questions about "partners" and "activities," I identified myself as a sex worker. However, I ALSO detailed all of the preventative measures that I have always taken both on appointments AND in my personal life. (This is a public board, so I will keep it short and sweet... but suffice to say I have always been safer than 95% of bar sluts!) This woman had the NERVE to imply that perhaps I WANTED to get HIV... and referenced the phenomenon known as "bug chasers" in the gay community! I was aghast! I not only verbially "schooled" her in as calm and polite of a manner as I could muster, but I also reported her behavior to her supervisor!

So, NO... many sexual health clinics in this country leave A LOT to be desired! Just last year I had a VT Planned Parenthood try to debate me when I requested a throat swab. I felt like yelling out the imortal words of Jack Nicholson- "Truth? You can't HANDLE the trutb!" Lol.

 

 


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