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CTshoe12 1 Reviews 23336 reads
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I am 28 years old and have been a hobbyist since 21.     I understand some providers only choose to see older hobbyists because of maturity or financial reasons.  I still have problems seeing some providers even if I say that I am a long time hobbyist and can provide the required donation.  I just wanted to gauge some other opinions on this....thanks everyone

krissalee25832 reads

Seeings that you do not have any reviews here I will have to be quite vague in my answer for now and I am sorry for that..

but even if you are able to provide the required donations many will only see those who can provide other essential basic info/references as per the various providers websites.

Not sure you are able or willing to do that. but,
I do hope this answer helps somewhat..

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hollywinthrop20647 reads

Krissalee, I'm finally here! And you are as helpful and hot as ever! hugs, ~Holly~

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EnchantedElla24527 reads

I've seen younger guys, but cautious due to the maturity level and their intent.

Something I noticed since joining this profession is how different men are when it comes to companionship and aging. I'm not just talking about intimate skills either.

For me, I've learned to make decisions to see guys under age 30 on a case-by-case basis. Its nothing personal at all.

Good topic.  Thank you for bringing it up.

XOXO,
Ella

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Victoria VonHelk23980 reads

If you phrase your introduction eloquently enough, and provide good references or employment information upfront, your age shouldnt be an issue. Unless you look younger than 18, of which she would ask for your id;-)

Far too often, ego overshadows the actual skill set. Unfortunately, this is normally when corruption seeps in.

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CTshoe1221992 reads

I have no problems providing screening and employment information as I do have a regular full-time "big boy" job....but i understand the hesitation some providers have in seeing younger clientele....Thank you all for your responses

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Boris99321548 reads


and go after it. For some providers it's a knockout punch and they won't see you. For others the message that they are sending is that they want a respectful and mature person. It sounds like you have plenty of experience and you're respectful. Spell it out to them just like you did hear and let them make the call.

You don't have any reviews here, that may not mean anything. As long as your original post is true and you're not BSing providers about safety concerns, then go for it.

B

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quinn_cupcakes21578 reads

I agree that ego makes a difference when it comes to age. I know I certainly don't mind seeing clients of all ages, I haven't yet had any problems with younger men...

...but I would never date somebody close to my age range. Maybe I'm just surrounded by the not so polite ones in my personal life? ;)

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CTshoe1225282 reads

thanks for the input everyone.....I had one provider basically chastise me after I told her that I had been at this since 21.  she was like "why are you doing this?? you should find a nice gf"

ps.  by the way, nice website Quinn

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crotchedy_old_bastard23277 reads

but you keep pluggin along there, pilgrim, and you'll get lucky one of these days.

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