I consider myself a mature provider and I'm not shy about admitting it.  Recently I had a client explain to me that he does not see me as a mature provider or a youngin' but somewhere in between.  His reasoning was my mindset, state of health and looks.  Although my definition of mature does not match his, it did get me to thinking...is mature just an age thing or are there other factors that come into play?

Things like mindset and looks are in the eyes of the beholder.  What one sees as beautiful, another does not.  

What is YOUR definition of mature?  When you see a mature provider, what do you expect?

Just like the definitions of GFE and PSE, it seems that the word mature may have a plethora of definitions among those in this wonderful hobby.

age 40 and older.  

While a provider may have a younger mindset, they're still mature to me if they meet that minimum age. Similarly, if a younger than 40 provider has an older mindset, I still wouldn't consider them a mature provider. Just wise beyond their years.

I don't believe state of health or looks are good criteria in determining if a provider is considered mature or not. Hopefully one tries to be healthy at any age. And looks can either fade at any time or they can be maintained longer than normal, regardless of age. Probably has more to do with genes than age.

To me, mature means experience and wisdom which usually comes with age.

You can add MILF to that list of definitions with multiple meanings depending upon who uses it.

Thank you for the insight.  I agree with you on the mindset, looks and state of health.  

You're right, "MILF" had many definitions too...I'm guessing more than "mature".  

I consider myself to be a mature companion. I started my decades long career in adult entertainment back in College before creating my family. I believe being a mature provider has no direct age it’s your actions.  Being a mature professional means having patience, being caring & experienced.

I like your attitude!

I was pondering this myself, if and when I should say I am.  

I think “mature” the way I had seen it used more often was a euphemism for a “granny” kind of old. Older than milf, which would be 30s to 40s. So mature would be 50s and up?  That never used to be too attractive to me, but I’ve found as I’m getting older (late 40s now), the range that I find women attractive keeps going up too.

To stop seeing women? Like would you see a 60 year old if she had no wrinkles? Or 70? I mean as long as we can still fuck we keep going right? But is there an age where a guy would say absolutely not! I think mature is before that point but to say what exactly is that age I don’t know. 40? 50? 70!

And still see myself as mature provider and I adverstise as so .. To me age is just number!

I'm not a MILF or GLIF as I don't have any little ones.