What would be the perfect date for your ATF to surprise you with

Strip club ... Can't go wrong with some nude hot ladies!

I'd cook him something very special and then bring him out in the woods by my house for a campout & do him just how he likes it lol so many ATF's to choose from though hmmm....

I think I would bring him to the mall, try on a couple outfits, keep asking over & over "do I look fat?"
I would lead him from store to store having him hold my purse and then, I would have him run & get me a coffee,  
I would say "meet me at Branes & Noble babe"...
         Then I would sing his praises about what an awesome guy he is because even I hate the damn mall & all of this was a little practical joke just to see how he would handle it.....and if he's the great guy I expect him to be -we would have a good laugh & I would promise never to do that to him again......

waiting for various women, usually friends, and never has one of these "sessions" turned into the type of idyllic session you described, sweetie.  now there's a dream to dwell on tonight!

followed by a little drive as we slip off to our secret hideaway.

I'd like to get taken out for a day of looking at antiques or traveling around to estate/garage sales. Dithering over prices, rarity, etc. Maybe lunch at some unique place and then the main event caps off a nice day spent together.

One is an evening in.... Order pizza and watch a Wild or Viking game, playing at every lull n the game and at halftime/ between periods, with a grand finale after the game.  
The other is a long weekend, starting with a seafood buffet at the casino and overnight. Followed by a drive to the North Shore, taking in the Lighthouse, the Falls, and Grand Marais, with two nights T Cove Point. We finish with a leisurely drive back on Monday.....

have had two very special moments shopping. first with Samantha Good and second with Wendy. helping pick their outfit choices in the dressing room as they tried them on, unbelievably hot, even the salespeople that brought us the different clothes enjoyed our moment.      mbs

Before I even read your post Bri, that was the first thing that came to mind!

to her place to enjoy dinner that she prepared for us. I was fortunate to spend time with a beautiful woman that made
 amazing meals for us. It was one of the most enjoyable/nice things that happened to me.
 I also had a woman make me cookies for Valentines day- so cool!

Diving the blue hole, snorkeling by the coral and wading in the blue with warm waters lapping on us and then to dive into each other and lap one another as a warm breeze brushes and licks upon us and blankets our continuous motion between coming up for air whether on land or in the water.    

That sounds much better than going out to eat and heading back to a room. My new dream trip.....Belize!

We well might just find ourselves there!!!!   True this!

If it's 'Take a man on a date month' why am I taking you? Please help?

I agree.... I'd LOVE a lady to take me on a date to Belize. But I get this dunny feeling I'll be waiting a LOOOONG time for that one......

Looks like the question was where would a lady like to take a guy or where would guys like to be taken. Not really so confusing after all.                              

& in fact if a human is in a dreamless state for ten days, about, then the body shuts down and dies.  Dreaming and dreaming on is more essential than even food so don't knock dreaming and dreaming on for our very existence is perhaps just a dream come true as it is.   Nothing happens without dreaming and might as well have one helluva good dream, the impossible, the fantastical, the pushing of the envelope into the most elustrious imagination pointing to a most real abd even realistic dream that's already come true for someone(s) right in Belize and perhaps in fact will again with sojourners right from Minnesota even!  Surely.   I'd say it's quite possible and even probable it will happen and has happened!  

Several of us are married and we aren't going out anywhere in public...WTF..no malls, no Mannys, maybe a strip club, but even that can be a challenge.  Now with smart phones that have cameras our SO's best friend or a neighbor can text her with a pix of us and the escort as we  enjoy our "romantic date"  at the restaurant or mall..yeah, right!  Not happening.  Kinda like that trip to Belize with that nutty EM, let us know how that turns out since she said it was true you two may be going....hahaha

Your nutty response has nothing to do with the question at hand. If you are worried that your SO might not like it if she caught you sneaking around, maybe you shouldn't partake of the fun that can be had on a trip or a night out on the town.  
That doesn't mean some of us can't do it, don't be so envious of those of us who can go out and have a good time, we'll have enough fun for you too.

and I commented from the perspective that represents many of us here, obviously not you, so good for you.  You just go on out there and take care of your needs and others will see to their own.  And guess what, there are other views on this type of subject besides yours.   Nothing nutty about my post, then again, I'm sober, your Belize partner EM?  Hmmm, probably not!  LMAO
 

It was meant in fun and honestly it's not that crazy to think that one of us could or would take someone on a date ... You might be surprised to find out how many of us have actually done that.  

... the idea of a date in Belize with a woman like Élan is the nuttiness of suggesting it's nutty!

OK, how about if you take me under a waterfall so the world couldn't hear me moaning and screaming?

While Belize, the Bahamas or anywhere tropical would be great, I will start with...

Why would you think that?  Because I tossed a little reality into the mix?  

This scenario is definitely not impossible to imagine and it does happen. It is amazing what can happen when you strive to always be a gentleman and treat a woman with the utmost respect. Negative energy will almost always get you nowhere.

Kisses to all you sweet sensual rock hard solid respecting gorgeous men!!!  
 

that I was referring to. I'm not pointing fingers but it does seem as if one person or another has to always bring negativity into each and every thread.  

Bri, you may have stumbled onto a new marketing tool! Most guys would jump at the chance to say have dinner or drinks with a favorite friend. It wouldn't have to be exotic or extravagant. You girls have to eat anyway, it would be nice to get a PM from a provider asking one of us to have dinner with them off the clock! It could be kind of a frequent flyer program or perks program! Something as simple as Applebee's for example, with no expectations, it would be a nice touch, I think. I'm sure I'll be chastized by someone, but so be it.

A big +1 to this post!!

... go out of her way to give a client an exceptionally nice surprise just because she feels like it, this morning showed that you are wrong, wrong, WRONG! And it's that 'nutty' Elan Montage who proved it to me, an hour before PC_Repellant posted his attack. So alias boy, please continue working to alienate the ladies who love what they do. Leaves more for the rest of us.

I am in the situation the troll talks about but have had public coffee, dinners and lunches with several of the women on this board. Apparently the troll has not noticed that this is not a taliban society. Men and women (who are not married to each other) socialize in many venues.  

Talk about attacks??  4evr, you are a master of them.  I didn't attack anybody, I commented on a "nutty" poster, and yes she is imho.  Attack?  Really? Hey what I wrote is nothing compared to some of your attacks on others on this board.  The alias bashing, it's getting old, you should really give it up since you know we are all using a form of alias here and of course an alias on TER is a moniker that requires VIP, something you are regularly NOT.  hahahh

Probably Bananas Foster!

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You're right about the 'boy' part. Calling a grown man 'boy' is offensive, and I apologize to you for that. My bad.

Had provider friend e-mail and she is buying me lunch tomorrow Very nice touch! Just burgers at a local bar, but still very thoughtful. Sometimes that is better than a fantasy date!

Anyone who calls Elan "nutty" obviously doesn't know her - please get to know her before stereotyping her.

That can happen heeheehee

Some people go out their way to get offended by something.  That's their problem.

And it is fun thank you ! Now, who wants to go on a date before sept is over lol

I've only been around this place for a few months but it has gone down hill fast.  You couldn't post "Water is wet" without some asshat getting his/her panties in a bunch and starting an argument.