It helps with business ... Only once did I not send a thank you pm and that was because it was a bad review and the guy was mean ... Why would I thank someone for that? Well I also had a fake review and that pm was to clarify that it was not me and to ask him to remove or correct it.  His lack of response reaffirmed that it was faked not just a mistake. Showing appreciation goes a long way just as a follow up email or text after a meeting does.

Is if it was a Fake Review or to say thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank yous

I always send a thank you to a lady after I have seen her and on the other hand I think almost all my reviews for a lady have gotten me a thank you note from them.

This is a service industry.  Just because it is underground does not mean that service industry etiquette is suspended.  

I always send a thank you after a session and always get one in return.  Sometimes, I will get a thank you before I have time to send one.  

For the hobbyist, courtesy before (bathing, not getting drunk, and my new favorite {do not wear a police picnic teeshirt]), during and after the encounter is the key to getting whitelists which makes the next appointment easier with another woman and also easier for a repeat with the women you have just seen.  

Every month, some one complains about some provider who he has seen who is not answering attempts to schedule another appt.  Hobbyists are not entitled to a repeat visit. Why would a woman turn down two weeks of groceries?  Hmmm. Think hard about what that woman might think of you because of your review or her or of her girlfriend who you dissed.

For the provider, thank yous, as with any service industry--help recruit regular clients who are essential unless she wants to go bottom feeding and face the risks of trying to make it up on volume.

As to review misunderstandings.  As a person who has been in this for twenty years, a review is part of the provider's brand. It should not be considered a hobbyist's trophy room.  So what is wrong with sending the text to the provider before submitting it?  This makes sure it is accurate and does not include stuff like she did a BBBJ when she did not.  I have never found a provider who asked me to lie--not one.  

Sometimes there is just not the right chemistry.  This does not make a bad provider. It's just human.  If the session does not click, and this shows in the review--there is no reason to submit the review and trash a woman that many other men have had a wonderful time with.  Just move on. PM privileges are not worth causing another person pain. There is enough pain in the world already.

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I did have one provider contact me after a review and ask how she could make the session better.  Maybe a hint there (or not).  But no one have came out and questioned me about the review.  

I think a thank you message is a nice touch (by either party).  I think it is nice for the lady to let the gentleman know she would like his return business.  And nice for the customer let the provider know he enjoyed his time with her.

I've received a couple thank you notes after the review. But normally I ask if they would like a review. And the thank you usually cums when I visit them again. As you can tell, I don't write very many reviews and I will probably never make it to the top 100. LOL

Train Wreck of the Century...

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=191028&boardID=21&page=1#191028

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=165383&boardID=21&page=#165383

I sometimes request info to make sure it's not a fake review.  So far, I only have one, and it is recent.  Working on that.  I'll send thank yous, as well.  However, if I get low numbers from someone who says that they are definitely coming back, I'm baffled, because it kinda is a turn-off.  So, I don't email them, because what the fuck would I say if that's how he feels, but I'm unlikely to see them again

Some genuinely want to know why the score wasn't what they were expecti8ng and how to improve and some actually harass reviewers who don't give them score they wanted.