I'm recently single and decided my next relationship needs to be a open/swinging. What are the best sites to meet a like minded lady for a ltr.

The women you will find here (on TER) would definitely be interested in an LTR for a fee of course. And the relationship will never be that serious (no going to meet her family).

I've been to swing events (NYC only) with clients. It is a very fun date indeed.

Other suggestions, join:
AFF (adult friend finder)
or
Fetlife (a fetish site, even vanilla fetishists are welcome ...ie you love women in pantyhose).

Congrats on being single!!
ENJOY.
Soft and sweet,
Samantha Good

Not really into $$$ for fake relationship.  but the joy of being single has it's perks

better link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=iVeDEIrsjmg

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First off, I congratulated you on being single and gave you suggestions for sites per your request.

Second off, YOU CAME to a P4P site ----> what the fuck kind of response did you think you were going to get? (I answered you and did a touch of self/group promotion).

Third, I've been in this business long enough to know my relationships with my friends of 5+ years are NOT fake. In fact they are very real. I am a very real woman, that cares about my friends. Whether or not if we are dating or having a P4P relationship, people in my life mean something to me. SO, DO NOT minimize WHO I am, or other ladies I know, and what we do.
Some of us ladies are quite genuine.

And last, you used an alias to post so you must have something to lose by showing the providers out here in TER land that you are single? No?

Yet again,
Good luck on your quest to find a unicorn!...They are out there, you just have to believe.
We are talking about a delicacy ..... watch this: http://tribecafilm.com/online/competitions/film/513e251fc07f5d13bf000001-delicacy


The Superior Desire,
Samantha Good

Samantha's right.  

You can have a  P4P relationship that's perhaps more "real" than a conventional "dating" relationship.  At least in P4P, everything is out there in the open and openly negotiated.  It's a lot healthier than a conventional relationship where you might find yourself asking, "Well, if I take her to dinner at Belle Vie and then to a show, I wonder if she'll put out...."  Now That is self-delusion...

As for swinging events...there is a swinging community in the TC.  While I've only glimpsed it, I believe it's unlikely that you would find a partner there without certain strings attached...my impression is that as easy as sex can appear to be in that community, it has its own set of protocols and rules....but I'll let those who know what they are talking about address it...

SG,

I do apologies for the poor use of words in the post.  Sometimes I type before thinking things through.  With that said I've/we've met a number of ladies who've treated use with the utmost respect and most importantly are interesting, fun and beautiful on the inside.  On the flip side there are defiantly those watching grass growing visits but that's part of the deal also.  I don't entirely blame the lady for those visits.  I'm not exactly a looker or great converstionalist and neither were they in some cases.

Your right it's a P4P site so let me get back to writing my new review on how I banged the shit out of ...  and how I gave her 20 O's.  God I'm such a stud!!!  I also need to post a 411.  Has anyone seen Unicorn lately?  Is she retired or UTR?  Feel free to PM me if you have info.   This was all SARCASM

I have a personal preference to post everything under an alias.  I miss the days of multiple ones by the way.  There's NEVER any malicious intent in my post/responses but admit some are poorly thought out.  As for having something to lose that is a big negative ghost rider.  I've always been open with SO and my last SO was open to experimentation hence why I'm on TER.  I've never have and never will be the guy who runs around behind his SO back.  I rather be single then do that!!  With that said people's interests change over time and they move on.

This post started out with a simple question.  What are the best sites to find like-minded open relationship individuals.  Surely there has to be some people on TER who embrase that life style.  I know how to Google them but just curious if anyone found one better than the other.  I sure as hell wasn't going to post on Justin Bieber regional board.

I can't beleive I came off the deck to write this response but it's time to go back out and grill something that had parents.  I hope I don't offend the PETA TER readers with that one.

P.S  my son is just looking for food and money from your government.

Where the heck did the "sweet" part of your handle go???  Your last few posts have been on the flaming side. A poor guy comes on here asking for advice and you blast him. So much for "SWEET".

So now have a piece of me... I'll play.

A simple thank you or no response to my post would have sufficed.

I too miss the days of multiple alias.
I had SO many.
Once TER changed their rules, I decided to NOT have one at all.  

I wonder if a unicorn's horn would feel good as a dildo, or if someone has manufactured such a product. Like a faux horn. Would that be bestiality? Idk, I've seen dildos with rabbits, faces and I even own one that looks like an octopus.  
I am a unicorn lover...it takes one to know one.
Two yummy kisses blown to SR and SF for being sexy unicorns like moi!

Relax, it's just sex,
S

Sweetgwendolyn PM me with dates and times.  I'm thinking we could do an all over laser treatment thing.  Man am I hairy today. I love when ladies use the word Hun in responce to an appt request btw.  We give you our names for screening but for some reason you insist on using Hun or Sweetie in your responce.  Nothing states your just a number and I'm to lazy to remember your name from screening like Hun or Sweetie.

This may be just sex to you but it is also the Internet. The Internet is serious fucking business dammit!

You are going to pay for sex.  I bet you spent way more on your SO than you ever did int he hobby.

As far as swinging, you are now single.  Your chances just plummeted.  It is so difficult for a single man to get into play parties or events.  Solution: hire a date?  

You can try out LifestyleLounge and WC Nights, but you'll have a hell of a time without a girl by your side.
You are very unlikely to find your next relationship in the lifestyle.  You find it and then join.  Fetlife is great for events you can go to without a girl, but if you're only into swinging, that may not be your gig.

SG is right (as usual, pay attention): Many of us are very real women.  We connect.  

I have clients that I hope will be in my life forever.  There are plenty of people that I love that pay me.  That does not devalue the connection we have made.  However, I have bills to pay and a life to lead.  In fact, if I connected less with my clients, I could probably see way more people.  However, I'm a lover.  I put a lot of emotion into what I do.

I'm gonna quote another SG favorite of mine: Relax, boys.  It's just sex

Trust me you do not want to use a unicorn horn as a dildo. It takes forever to get all the glitter out of your hooha.

Granted, the horn is hollow but you seem crafty. And who doesn't love a challenge