So for all you lovely non Fs providers, i have a quick question for y'all....

It is probably something you should post/ask on Reddit.

Sounds like might be interesting but do not have the time or patience to read what you wrote.
Must be the newest form of “Time Wasting”

Lmfaooo idk how that even happened

Lmfaoo Irdk how it turned into a weird Ass font, but try again lol I fixed it

Hahah I fixed it, idk how it turned out so weird ?

Your client is most-likely doing FS with other providers. Married men don't venture out of their monogamous relationship into this world casually. There was a clear intent.

It will definitely change the dynamic... Though not necessarily for the worse.  If he has been seeing you that long he definitely has likes you back.  

I'd recommend against getting too familiar with someone unobtainable -- this goes for both men and women. The cure for a fixation is active variety. Spin more plates -- don't focus on just one.

He's gonna have a hard time explaining to his wife that he didnt have intercourse with you so you might as well fuck him.  

Butterflies? Your knees quiver? Your tongue occasionally fall out of the corner of your mouth? Your panties a little wetter than usual?
(I'm just speculating based on what happens with me)

Apparently he says I’m his 1st and only provider, but idk if I even believe that. Every time he wants to just f-me he always says, “well, I am married & you’re my first and only provider.. so you know that I’m clean & all yours.” Idk its just so confusing

you sweet woman.  
Don't believe it unless you know it, and you can't know it from him.
Here's an idea. Ask him if he's ever written reviews and if he would write one about you.  
Depending on the reply, push him a little more.  
Does he have a review board handle?
Bear in mind that communication is 90% body language, not words.
(And then you need to see me again soon)

And of course this guy is leaving enough of a patronage to cover the extra service or services he is expecting to receive on each visit . LOL  
If you are falling as you sound like you are should be immediately ghost him the same as if you sense he sees this as more than transactional.

There are way too many ways this can go badly for you.  FWIW I think you should stop seeing him.

Come see me soon!! And I don’t think he has one

It’s up to you if you decide to take that leap with this client. You won’t become a home wrecker if you do and you only keep it professional. However, there is that chance they will expect it with every future visit. If that isn’t a problem for you then I say have fun and enjoy yourself. That’s why we are all in this hobby, right? I’m sure there are plenty of us in this hobby that would enjoy a fs encounter with you.

The question was designed to see whether your belief is correct

With all due respect, I don’t believe the providers post. Could it be true, certainly. But, with that being said I think it’s more likely that she’s trying to drum up interest to seeing her by giving the impression that there’s a chance she could be attracted to you enough that she’d consider breaking her rules and allowing FS. Don’t be so naive.  

Don’t be so naive. The author of the post has already been called out for “salesly” posts in the recent past. In my humble opinion, this is no different.  

Exactly... who is she kidding? If the guy is spending time with her, he's already cheating on his wife. She is too naïve to think it's only cheating if they have sex. Clearly not right in the head... and just a few months back she had videos up in pornhub getting fucked bareback and she's acting like her pussy is the holy grail.

Why thank you for your kind words of wisdom, doll. Much appreciated ❤️ perhaps, maybe one day if I stopped being so indecisive & quit OVER-ANALYZING everything, him & I could step back, go over boundaries, define the situation, & decide on whether it’s healthy for both parties  

Believe whatever u want. I could care less, Lmfaooo. Don’t be salty just bc no one is willing and wanting to give YOU FS  out of genuine interest/connection…. I came here to get other PROVIDERS second hand opinions. Like I stated before, he claims I’m his first and only provider (& he’s found me from a different website) so I doubt he’s even on here so it’s not like I’m playing on any of my other clientele’s emotions. & I am STRICTLY non FS, and I would NEVER try to even advertise some shit like that cause I wouldn’t want to attract THE WRONG kind of clientele. But haters will hate. But at the end of the day, y’all could suck my left nut, cause I’m still getting paid & still getting the kind of advice/second opinions I was seeking for.  

Baby the pussy is GOLDEN ✨ & worth more than yo life. ofc I was getting dicked raw  & PROUDLY POSTED that on PH- I mean after being w one man, making content, & spending 3+ years with the same dick you really thinking I’m fuckin w a rubber? Lmfaooo get real 🤣 JUST CAUSE U HAVE TO PAY FOR PUSSY - (only to end up having to use a rubber bc that woman’s pussy ain’t belong to you- Don’t mean everybody have to)  

See, there’s so much that could go wrong with the little situationship I’m dealing w. I have never wanted nor even thought about going fs w anyone before him. Just bc I know how I get AFTER the fact, & for me sex has to be more than just physical, there has to be a connection, a friendship, & attraction…. Otherwise I’d feel gross w myself:/  lol also the basic fact that I haven’t met any other clients that I’m actually sexually attracted to & that I ACTUALLY want to fuck 😂  Lol it’s always just been BUSINESS aka getting it done & over with & never thinking twice about the session.

Awe. Well thank you, luv. Appreciate the love 💗  

Yk it sweet thang! 💅🏼 brains, beauty, a banging body, & a bitchin’ personality. 🤭lol jp, I’m just being cocky now, but in all seriousness, you know me. You know that I don’t need to clickbait & bs for clients.💁🏼‍♀️

Have him go tell his wife and see if she thinks it is cheating.
Then again Bill Clinton’’s BJ was not cheating either. LOL

I think you've basically answered your own question with all your replies here.  Your personal morals prohibit going forward beyond your standard service.  You will continue to face temptation every time you see him.  Either you surrender to the temptation, or you face frustration.  Heartbreak is ensured in either case.  For him, despite what he may say, his position means you will only ever become a notch on his belt.  

No need for attempted insults and personal attacks. Clearly, you weren’t raised with any manners (among other things). Also, of all people, you really shouldn’t be throwing stones…you live in a glass house.  

Several months ago I tried arranging a session with a local B-list porn star and she shared my emails on her Reddit and Twitter.  Emkay, I wasn’t going to book you based on your lack of services but now I would avoid you to protect my personal privacy!  Good day!

… who the client is based on the info Emkay posted. All we know is that “He's tall, dark, handsome, and pretty wealthy”, he’s married, and he claims she’s the only provider he’s seen.  How could he possibly be identified based on that info?

Silly Miggs. Good day!

Who knows if his wife or a hired private investigator(yes it happens with rich people like him) is monitoring his devices because she suspects something is going on with Emkay or other sex workers.  Maybe he has written a review of Emkay and this is the last piece of evidence for his wife to identify him.

First off would you share your pornhub link..
Second, I just came in this conversation but a few things. I respect your point when you say Cheating looks different for every person but let me ask you a question, if you had a long-term relationship, and you found out your man was seeing someone who provided your services, would you be upset or would you be okay with?  
If it was just a therapeutic massage, that would be one thing. , but we're talking about something completely different that you offer.

If this guy wrote a review on Emkay, first, his wife would need his TER ID and password to see the details. If the guy is such an idiot to expose his TER ID and password to his wife (or anyone for that matter), he deserves whatever she can throw at him.

http://tubitv.com/movies/447851/shattered

is that she is incredibly careful and private, far more than most. Certainly far more than you.

I've seen your ads, and even your OF videos, (free of course, why would I ever pay for porn on the internet?)

Ive dated 3 of my clients  

So now that reading over the details ,  what I would do  

What the actual f@ck ? What is actually wrong w u? Lol what did I say that gave ANYTHING of his identity away? I didn’t mention his name, email, nor any thing CLOSE to that ? I didn’t even mention his AGE nor race. You are clearly OVER reacting and over analyzing this post. I’m glad you are avoiding me cause I wouldn’t want a cuck like u to come see me anyways

Nah, I wasn’t throwing insults, I’m stating facts. If you had experienced what I said then you wouldn’t think it’s so OUTLANDISH for a non fs provider to want to do extra curricular things w u. Bc I know some lovely ppl who has/are seeing non fs providers, but has gone /are going all the way w them. some ppl got it & others—- well they don’t 🤷‍♀️ don’t gotta be pressed cause u don’t.  

THANK YOU!! Trippin as a mf. Just bc he got ducked over, I’m the Ass hole bc I generally described a client. Nothing that in-depth? Lmaoo ppl are fuckin nuts!

IF YOU READ, you would’ve read that he doesn’t have an account, & LMFAOOOO a P.I can tell it’s 110% that guy that they’re looking into bc I said he’s tall, dark, handsome, married, & pretty wealthy? Lmfao. I’m sure more than half hobbyist are MARRIED, tall, dark, & handsome. Jeez Louise not everything in this world is like a true crime show

Exactly WHERE did I advertise or even tried to deceive anybody about anything? I mean, this post was intended for OTHER PROVIDERS, & ppl who ACTUALLY has been thru this bc I was needing advice & opinions, but since I seriously doubt that anybody has ever gave u coochi for the free, and you obviously have no idea abt this topic, u can go cry abt it on your incel Reddit thread, cause nobody rly gaf about ur opinion.  

I'm sorry if I offended you. You have a good attitude. Best way to get good clients, not just horny ones. And broke ones.

Well, this should be fun and educational.

Well said. You are very articulate. I hope we all learn.

Omfg, I really am BOO BOO THE FUCKING FOOL… 🤬 so thanks to the lovely Rain, I have found out that I almost fell for a P.O.S lying sack of shit rapist… 😪 I am sick & disgusted…. Well thank BABY JESUS I didn’t let him f*ck 😭  

So you thought he was telling you the truth this whole time?? would this be considered cheating in your world?? You have to remember this is a business and don't get too attached to the clients. I also suggest you keep your view of men in this hobby to yourself and don't go blabbing around saying they are losers and have to pay for the P and whatever colorful language you have been using here. I've been in this hobby for a few years now and have seen girls like you come and go, post shit about clients and end up turning into a train wreck. Then they get upset when clients stop booking them and start doing dumb shit. Just stay offline and build a nice clientele you can rely on. If you keep posting stuff like this, you'll lose the ones you have.

Why do I have a feeling we are gonna see a similar post like this from Emkay in the near future? That was one crazy lady and she tried to resurrect her career few years later and made a apology post, but was never able to let that post go away. Most crazy thread I read back in the day. I hope other providers learn from it.

You gotta understand, there's a lot of mental issues with a lot of these providers. I don't think I even got to say this, it's so obvious. Just let them rant (I think it makes them feel better). If you're stupid enough to keep seeing these providers with mental issues, and they post stuff about you, then that's on you. Dude, mental illness is real (& I don't think I even gotta say this)

just makes me wonder even more why guy line up to not only throw their money at them, but give them all the PII that that exposes themselves to a lifetime of liability.

Wow, well said

💯

Breaking news -- chicks throwing themselves at hot guys.
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As long as 80% of women are chasing the top 5% of guys, of course they are going to get pumped and dumped.

A recent study has shown that 25% of women are being treated for mental disorders.

… is that mental disorders in men are less likely to be treated because men tend to not talk about their mental issues nor seek treatment for them, compared to women.

Regardless of gender... now a days, i think most everybody is f'ed up. Mental illness is real. It's sad to see in real time, how society (especially America) is spiraling down the toilet.

I don’t think you understand what the word “fact” actually means because nothing you’ve said thus far can be considered factual. Also add to the list the word “irony” as you comment that I care so much to reply to your posts, yet your dumb ass replies to every single person who disagrees with you in this thread and you care so little??? Looks like she has neither brains nor beauty, but go ahead and try to stick your nose up her butt a little further lockstock…it’s quite brown already.  

Hey man, let's chill out. Remember all, this supposed to be a fun hobby. Attacks are getting more and more nasty. You want to think about some of these people's mental stability. What happens if someone took it the wrong way and decides to end it all. How would you feel then?

The Asian Baby Gangster anesthetic should of died like ten years ago. And look at y'all desperately trying to bring it back.

"Asian Baby Gangster anesthetic " -- Ha! it didn't put me to sleep.

I hadn't heard that term before, but upon looking it up, yeah, it's aesthetic, not anesthetic.

I don’t care about losing any clients I’ve never had or seem to look at me in a different light, I have a good clientele already and they know how I am offline, so I don’t care what trolls have to say, I mean don’t dish it if you can’t take it 🥱 but i as I am , I tend to like to build a relationship and rapport w my clients so it’s messed up when I try to wear my heart on my sleeves, only to get lied to. I have built quite a few good relationships w some regulars and I would hate to view all of them as fake or liars. I truly thought that some people in this hobby weren’t all shit, but I guess you just validated that most guys are…

Lmfaooo I don’t apologize to trolls. Y’all can go choke on it. Lmfaoooo “gangster?” Says who lmfaoooo goofy. I’m just trolling y’all back. 🥴🥴🥴🥴

Honestly, I say go to therapy. I do, and that’s simply why I just laugh at these comments. Go to therapy, self care and self love actually helps a lot. People talk shit all day, so I just laugh and go along w them bc it’s entertaining. Mental health is declining in America, most teenagers 12-19 are depressed, and some are even turning to self harm and drugs, it’s really sad & I feel like it should be more talked about…. But I am happy bc I feel like we’re finally just starting to open up about mental health (so some people still feel ashamed or embarrassed to get help or talk about it) but I feel like it should become the norm

Why indeed are modern youth mentally screwed up. Liberalism has marched thru the institutions, especially education. Kids are taught white guilt, "be less white", they are colonizers, they should question their gender, keep secrets from their parents, and peer shamed for having any unapproved political opinions. Of course they're fucked up.

Lester hit the nail square on the head.
I could add to that list but it would do no good.
Who would care. Especially the 2 numb nut mayors of zoos.

Don't forget social media and instant gratification.  

So you think that sharing anonymous DMs is more “despicable” than the things he was saying to me in them? Ok then…

… to deal with emails like that than sharing them publicly… if that’s in fact what you did.

Because I was locked out of my first username, so I created a new one, then I got back into my first one.

Such as? I’d love to hear your ideas.

A few that come to mind:

I did call out his behavior here using his TER handle tho?