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Puzzled by lack of responses to email
tmmcnghtn 19 Reviews 2838 reads
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While I understand that providers in MPLS are extra cautious these days I am surprised that the majority of providers I have reached out to via email have not given any response at all.

I'm sending simple polite messages, including references, one a White List TER reference, my TER handle and my first but not last name. Am I doing something wrong? Are references outside the Twin Cities not good enough? Previously, I have only seen providers while traveling on business.

I had assumed that initial contact via email might make things easier but even providers who have email as their only contact method have not responded.

Any ideas or advice?

imDelilah1709 reads

Hi~
Have you filled out the contact form on their websites if that's what they request?

That is the starting point for a lot of us.

I'm sorry you're not getting responses back.  Maybe this will help.

Hugs,
Delilah

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tmmcnghtn1315 reads

I have not tried this as I didn't think it would make much difference but I'll give it a shot and see if it helps. Thanks!

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youdummy1160 reads

I dont think its just you, I also have had a few girls that "know me" not return my calls I even heard some think I'm working for LE???

I guess fear and paranoia gets the better of some people.

-- Modified on 7/17/2009 11:25:50 AM

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MILF_MARIE1504 reads

You have another PM.

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anon76588491017 reads

BBW Wars are pretty Hysterical!  Glad there is now peace/LOVE in the Plus size community!  ;-)

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langeweile1339 reads

I have to agree with the original poster and some of the comments made her.
Some providers simply don't response. It would be a better business practice to send a response stating " Sorry I am not taking any new clients". IMHO

Some of those that do respond are paranoid. I don't partake in the hobby on a regular basis, so I don't have a list of providers I can reference here in town.

I would think however by being a VIP member with some legit reviews should count for something?

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Sensual Leigh1735 reads

to send them a PM,so that they know it is you and you're not hijacking someone elses handle whi is whitelisted and writes reviews.

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tmmcnghtn1277 reads

good idea, thanks for all the feedback ladies!

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heartsonfire1192 reads

My name is Leann. I never reply to emails for a few reasons. I like to keep a very low profile for one thing. Secondly, the fewer paper trails, the better. Most importantly, part of my screening process is having a phone number at my disposal, and your voice and the content of a live interview helps a lot in determining wether or not you are safe. I do however make it clear in my ads that I won't respond to emails. I think that's only fair. Hope this helps shed some light on the issue.

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