... classification of body shape is subjective. One person's "thin" may be another person's "too thin" or whatever. For example, I had a few providers in mind whom I think are thin and have enhanced breasts, but I know based on their reviews that not everyone would agree they're "thin", and not all enhancements are created equal.
Which is why I think the best way to do research like this is using the tools here to narrow down the search, then look at photos, reviews etc, and if necessary PM some reviewers to get more details. But fwiw... I would never send a PM to someone who posts an ISO using an alias I don't recognize and has no review history. Others may not have a problem with that, but I think discretion is very important in this "hobby."
Hello All, just moving back into the Twin Cities area and all of the providers I frequented are retired or have moved out :/. I'm looking for a new regular provider who is slim and has enhanced breasts. Any suggestions?
... since you have VIP. You can search profiles for body type (eg Thin), Enhanced breasts, and any other criteria you wish to use such as breast size, services, age etc. The results are sorted by descending overall rating so you can start at the top, check out photos, web sites, reviews etc and probably find one or more ladies who check your boxes pretty quickly. And since only you know your likes and dislikes, I think the DIY research approach is the way to go to find a new regular provider.
Thanks for the advice! I do really like the TER search functionality, it's one of the best differentiators out there. It's actually pretty difficult, though :/ and I love me some filters. Some of the issues are that:
Many of the results are not recent. You do get about 1.25 pages of results from the last year. 70% of the results are from touring gals. 15% of the results are for gals that either have few reviews (1) or that are quite negatively reviewed.
Given these results, it really don't make sense to me that only a couple of providers fit the bill in Minnesota. Reaching out by forum seems like a good way to get back involved in the community as well as get information. I've received a few helpful PMs already. (Thanks!)
My theory is that classification of body shape is really subjective. There are those who believe "thin" or "skinny" have negative connotations, and others who do not. There are those who will classify a provider as "curvy" or "baby fat" even though in someone else's opinion that provider may be quite slim.
... classification of body shape is subjective. One person's "thin" may be another person's "too thin" or whatever. For example, I had a few providers in mind whom I think are thin and have enhanced breasts, but I know based on their reviews that not everyone would agree they're "thin", and not all enhancements are created equal.
Which is why I think the best way to do research like this is using the tools here to narrow down the search, then look at photos, reviews etc, and if necessary PM some reviewers to get more details.
But fwiw... I would never send a PM to someone who posts an ISO using an alias I don't recognize and has no review history. Others may not have a problem with that, but I think discretion is very important in this "hobby."
Whats your handle? Not really a good idea if we can't vett you when asking for info. Maybe your legit but ,i dont know that . I dont recommend saying anything on here to those inclined . Think before responding. Whats behind curtain #3 none of us know .
Well, vorlon, it worked last time . The responses resulted in a great series of adventures for my wife and I. As for the reason I use an alias:
I understand that I lose some 'street cred' and am willing to take this loss for the purpose of being able to get feedback without causing drama. Perhaps a gal that I've seen before fits the bill and knows me by my main handle. Looking for variety is important to me and it has, in the past, caused jealousy and hurt feelings.
Secondarily, I have an unfounded suspicion that my 'resume' may skew people to assume certain things and give feedback based on what my reviews have been.
Lastly, I've been super lax about submitting reviews in the last few years. I understand that the community relies on reviews and I am currently in communication with mods to be able to submit these reviews (without getting VIP credits) so that I can build that history back up and contribute to reviews. So, I'm kinda embarrassed by my lack of reviewing and am hiding from that.
If you PM me, I'd be happy to share with you my handle, but fundamentally I think it's somewhat irrelevant. I am a VIP member, as you can see, and have been a member for a long time. I think using an alias is better suited for this purpose and is fairly benign compared to the purpose of stirring anonymous drama or any other common uses.
To be clear, this is NOT directed at Vorlon or anyone else in particular.
I agree with what you wrote about using an alias. There are definitely times for using one when posting on the board or submitting a review, and the decision (and reason) is up to the hobbyist not others on the board. Some people are quick blast others for using an alias, and it only makes me wonder how often they use their alias. Sometimes those who scream the loudest or point the finger are just as guilty. I have been blasted for using my alias at times, and I don't care. But as far as I am concerned, my reason(s) for doing so is valid. If people don't want to reply to or provide info to an alias, that is their decision and fine with me.
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