When contacting ladies that require references,  we do NOT want to read the correspondence you two had nor do we need to know how good you are at stalking by telling us another lady's REAL NAME!!! Heck I don't even want every single bit of your personal info either. Be careful!
Thank you.
That is all. V.

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Whatever he finds out about you, he won't hesitate to pass along.

Right?  I just thought I'd remind people not to give more info than they need to. As far as I know most of us ladies are okay with a couple solid references,  nothing more. To me employment info means nothing since it's too easy for someone to fabricate or get into the wrong hands. Xo V.

Exactly why I'm thankful I'm able to live under an assumed name.  You never know...

Guys actually do that???  And then talk about safe hobbying?

My point was that the guy while trying to impress you, was letting you know that he can't be trusted.

It's happened to me a couple times.  I ripped both of them new assholes.  I think they learned their lessons.