I do believe that alot of us on here have played the 'Shallow Hal' part in the past and it is truly our prerogative since we are spending the money on what we are looking for but i feel you are very bold to announce your personal opinions to the community at large.  As many of us may share your view that the providers may be getting larger we should also look in the mirror as to our bodies following suit and reach out appropriately instead of trying to group providers into a 'type" and broadcasting that, to hopefully get approval to make us feel less uncomfortable about our own biases.  
My main point of contention is the provider that posts 10 year old photos that do not represent them as you are readying to visit them. If we as consumers are being doped to schedule by a vision that we would not normally (due to personal preference) schedule with, then I am all in with the post but i guess just judging weight is the wrong characteristic to judge by. Do you think when the provider asks for our photo and receives a head shot of our 350 pound rolling body,  or our diabetic pregnancy gut, that they can also take a deep breath and be excited.  I try hard on my fitness and since i present to pamper them and hope that that starts the fire between both of us, it is always more stimulating to me when the provider obviously pays attention to their own fitness and that is obvious by the first touch. I may have a certain body type that i may search out to schedule with and that can be found by reading their profiles, doing a bit of research and even reading reviews if the writer also feels that sharing body type is important to readers and is honest about the review and not just looking for points.....like on one of my reviews that i feel bad in writing..... but that aside , many believe that those in the  BBW world are great providers so that is all you have to understand and live with, and maybe just  keep that to yourself or PM some of the other complainers on the board to get them to rally on to form the posse..  
As far as tats, I have none but i enough seeing them and asking the significance of and how they evolved, it makes for good ice breaking conversation if you are not condescending in your questioning. I have also found that you will find more tats on the slender spinners.......... so if you pass on both tattooed  and large then i would suggest you try the TS group that was probably also not around as much  ten years ago, that you left out of your points in your  'Honest' rant.