What happened with myfastpass dot com while I was away for the last 2 months?  I told many girls and guys it was drama-free and friendly.  I'm feeling terrible that I may have caused anyone undue anxiety and stress behind recommending what I thought was a private and safe membership to a verification service in which they could put their faith in.

I reffered people to it as well in the shirt few weeks I knew about it.

I'm glad to see the changes she has to it now but it just goes to remind us that we are never safe from LE.

Unfortunately, the good old boys on the "Violent Offenders Task Force" decided it would be easier to pick on a bunch of consenting adults instead of going after real criminals. Personally, I thank the Christian Lord every day that, while I may get shot in a drive-by or raped at knifepoint while walking home from school, at least they're keeping those dirty hookers off the internet.

Are the unknowing wives the "consenting adults" too?

If someone wants to include his wife thats between them. If someones wife or hubby is closed minded thats their problem to deal with.

My wife and I used to have 3-somes with a married school teacher we meet online. despite our invatations for her to allow him to join us she was very nervous that her hubby not find out. No lie!!!

Each marriage is different, my marriage I can share everything with my wife and as my best friend she knows everything about me, many people are not as lucky, and these people need to keep discretion for their marriage to work.

I would bet every wife out there has a few secrets of their own past or present including yours.

Unless your a wife that got ahold of your hubby's password?

Your not a school teacher are you?

Is it skanky to run around behind your wife's back? Yeah, probably. I'm sure there are also a lot of good reasons why men do it. Not to mention I've had a ton of clients in open relationships. Either way, I'm really not a big fan of making moral judgments on other peoples' lives.

Pardon me......where is the moralizing?

You said 'consenting adults'......not all the adults ARE consenting.

Defensive, I see....