Being in the hobby only a couple of months I am very apprehensive to see a provider at hotels.  Come to think about it I think I have only seen 3 providers in a hotel.  I guess I just get extra nervous because I think people are watching me, or LE is in the next room and this is a sting…..   I know I'm being paranoid but still I am very hesitant to see providers who are in hotels.  Is it just me or do others feel this way also?  Am I making too big of a deal about this?  I try to see providers who have reviews.

I'd like to get others opinions on which is better or rather which they prefer, hotels or private residences.  Providers please feel free to give your feedback.


Thanks!

Don't TRY to see providers who have been reviewed; ONLY see providers who have been reviewed. Seeing reviewed providers takes a lot of the paranoia out of the hobby. If you see a reviewed provider, you still need your instincts, but more to avoid getting ripped off.

I like hotels; they're kind of neutral ground. Still, there are a few providers I really trust and with them I prefer their private incalls.

You have to hobby safely above all. Then you have to hobby comfortably; you're not supposed to have your fight/flight reflex on all the time. That's no fun. That's why you're in the right place. Look at BP or whatever; then come here. Be patient; don't make the mistake of thinking with the little head.

The problem there is that unless the incall is carefully chosen, the neighbors may notice the guys coming and going.  More than one bust has happened because a neighbor called the cops.

As far as hotels go, it depends on the location.  Some areas of the Twin Cities are considered more hostile to escorts and hobbyists than others so I would be more concerned than that.  The other consideration is what type of hotel/motel it is.  Ones where the rooms have doors that open directly to the outside are easier for LE to spy on the people coming and going.

In over 30 years of hobbying, the only time I have come face to face with LE was at the private residence in an upscale condo with a well reviewed local provider. Yup, the neighbors noticed too much suspicious traffic.

If its someone without reviews and someone you don't know,  a Private Residence has the added risk of potential threats of being mugged, threatened by pimp, or ripped off. Its also harder to shield your identity if your car and license plates are identifiable by her or others there. Its less discreet unless an apt building with inside entrances.  

I was a provider for 2 years and retired for 3 and now Im back. I only offered outcall before because I live in a small town off the beaten path and when I returned I was begged to offer incall.
So the only way I can offer incall is to get a hotel room that works for myself and the client.
I too have a different worry..If I keep getting hotels rooms (at different locations) is that going to raise red flags on my end???
So thats my 2 cents and any suggestions for me would be greatly appreciated.

XOXO Kim

I would think using the same one all the time would be more likely to be noticed.

Precisely vorlon. The last thing you want to do is become a familiar face.

I guess I was thinking if your a local getting a hotel a few times in a a couple months do they start watching and wondering?

And LE isn't going to track how often someone uses a hotel unless they are already looking into something specific.