I have to agree with "the other stumble." I would just leave it alone, and try somebody else. There are plenty of well reviewed providers on the board, and I know that you are aware of that Good Luck.

I have had excellent experiences with Tara in the past. One possible explaination for your situation might simply be unfortunate timing. The last time I spoke with Tara she was splitting her time between Mpls and another city. I suppose it is possible that you have been catching her in transit?

But if the lady has never accepted an appointment with you then she doesn't own you an explaination. More than likely, she didn't want to see you because you have called so much over the past few months.  In the past I've experienced people like you and I know anytime I saw their number, I cringed, and then did not answer.  Doesn't matter if you are a good guy or not, the fact that you are calling obsessivly throws up red flags to her, and possibly other ladies reading this thread. It's kinda like you are trying to force a girl to see you, probably because you think we are all hungry for money and that's our "job". But, no, the ladies do not have to see a guy just because he is waiving money around, and most girls will not be bullied into seeing anyone.


What I would suggest, not just to you, but all the guys out there: Use the 3 strike rule - If you've called and/or emailed 3 times, and still no response, then strike her off your list and move on. You can then look at it as her loss, not yours.


~ Offering only my advice ~ because I can. ~  

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you know, Trooper, I have had that same experience with a different provider. Kasha has repeatedly left me hanging, without explanation. Even standing me up on a couple of occasions. Yet, I have had great times with several other providers who have been very sweet. It's frustrating to get no response whatsoever. Yet, continuing to contact that person has never worked for me. Moving on has.