Imagine this.... I was reading something the other day (LOL! For those of you who don't know me well, I am ALWAYS reading SOMETHING!)...and the article was giving a list of "Dos" and "Don'ts" for women in relationships.  A few I found interesting, so (again, so like me!) I'll share:

+ Don't put on deodorant, brush your teeth, or floss in front of him.  Keep that feminine mystique.

+ Oral.  Give it, take it, learn to like it if you have to but never give it up.

+ Put on lip gloss, even if no other makeup, when running to the store with your man.

+ Hide your makeup.  See Feminine Mystique above.

And...does this one even need to be mentioned, really?  REALLY?  Men and women....shut the bathroom door when doing your business!!!!  

That all said....sometime breaking these taboos is fun, too!  I've had requests to NOT wear makeup and actually apply it so someone CAN watch!    

What do YOU think?  Add to the list?

Playfully yours...
XO
Wendy

Awwwww....thanks for the compliment! Even more, thanks for your thoughts...It's nice to hear I'm not the only one who thinks things could more easily be kept happy...with point number two!

Of course we are all preaching to the choir here!

XO
Wendy

As for your number one, not so bad, esspecially if you have one of those big double vanities in a master bath.... esspecially if you follow up with a nice kiss after (I'm talking for married or living together couples). And as for deoderant, I prefere soap and water over getting a close up of deoderant when I am nuzzeling all around those great breasts.

Number two... VERY important!

Additionally, try to not bring the days baggage to bed. And if you or he does... You can clear it all up with number two before going to sleep.

Realize the woman can have all the control in a normal relationship. She can keep her partner loyal to her by keeping him satisfied and allways thinking of her...... He may look but if you are doing your part well, he will not wander. See number two.

But if you take the attitude that his sexul satisfaction is his problem and not yours, he will eventually find a way to solve his problem! Or you can see number two.

It is all about your attitude. And don't be shy about asking or taking the lead on something new now and then.... I think most men want to please their ladies. So if you have a request, ask sweetly, but critisize very softly. And maybe some show and tell? And incorperate that into number two!

Yes Yes Yes!!!  Keep your feminine mystique.  I'll try not to fart around you, please keep your "feminine" stuff to yourself.yU

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Traveling to a city close to me.

Oh yes, number 2!!!!

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Especially to her lips!

so is watching you put on your thigh highs and heels.  

It's a challenge to ad to this list.....but I will try. For me it it is being with someone who is confident and allows the mood to fluctuate between both partners giving and taking at the same time. I love a "tease", and exotic wear that advertises that. Most important: The feminine mystique is a wonderful aura to be wrapped up in.

If I see a lady that smokes, it's usually pretty easy to find a reason that you (or your clothing) smells like smoke, perfume on the other hand, is a different story.  A couple years ago I met a great gal and had a wonderful time but as we were getting dressed, she decided to give herself a generous poof of the nice-nice and then give me a big hug n kiss before I left.  This was on the way home from the metro and for two hours driving, could smell nothing but her perfume!

My only solution was to stop by the gas station and give my hands a trickle of diesel out of the gas pump and rub on my shirt as my excuse for stinking was helping a guy out stalled on the road and got a little fuel spray on my as we were working on a stuck injector.  Glad it was just a t-shirt!

My other concern is about the tooth brushing/flossing for both parties just prior to a session;  When you use a toothbrush or floss, the chance of breaking skin on the gums are huge.  These little tears will generally start to heal immediately, but for 20-30 minutes you would be considered as having an "open package" in medical terms as the dermal layer in your mouth may be compromised.  If you don't believe this, switch to a stiffer toothbrush and just use a little more pressure and after you rinse, pause a bit and spit the saliva in the sink.  You will probably see a little red coloring or streaks...this is blood.  You should plan on at least 30 minutes between the brushin' and the bangin', otherwise a good mouthwash just prior is a beautiful thing...

And Wendy, if we ever meet...sexy = heels (preferrably red and fmp) and nothing else

Comment, #2 is a major issue between men and women, nothing exclusive about it!

Only a fews days a month I'd take a pass on it!

My number one DON'T....please,please, please, don't talk about or compare past lovers to your current one!

My number one DO...guide me home, I want to know exactly how you like it!   It would be awesome if she was as interested in my hot buttons as well!