In my opinion, for what it counts, having just graduated from the newby world, I would say...
I am NOT in favor of implants. In fact, if I see a review of a provider any more who has them, I go elsewhere. Fact is, those I have seen are rock-hard and soooo unnatural. I have head trauma from being beat up by a couple of them! lol What I like are naturals. It tells me a woman is comfortable with her body and and herself, and that translates into a great time. They are not trying to be someone they really aren't.
Same for a lot of tats. A few ok, but some providers look like they went swimming in a pool of ink. Total turn-off.
As for the second question, I prefer the slow approach. I usually go for a two-hour appointment first time around, and often on subsequent visits. I have never been the S-B-T-M type of a guy. I want conversation. I like to hear what the provider wants to say. I like to feel that they actually care about me. Makes my life much more interesting. This is supposed to be a fun hobby. Why not meet an interesting person in the process? Besides, that is how you get my repeat business.
A NSA session with a hard (or soft) body with knock out implanted (or natural) boobs……or a session with NSA mature body with (implanted) or natural boobs. Of course there are variations in-between, but the question is what the PREVAILING desire is. Please don’t be limited by the somewhat narrow parameters that I’ve outlined. This is for all of us determine our “target markets”.
A second question…….do you prefer “wham-bam-thank-you ma’ams”? Or do you like to spend your meeting times with someone who actually likes and cares to spend the limited time together? Talking in-between & stuff. Someone who actually listens to what you have to say, and cares.
Let’s hear what you have to say. If you’re squeamish about being totally forthright, then you can always use an alias. lol
personally... i prefer a all natural woman, no skin and bones, no wam bam's, love a great make out session, lots ok DFK, touching etc, to me its the mental part, if i know she is just there watching the clock, its a huge turnoff and i cannot get "into" it
I like natural boobs. I have seen some nice boob jobs that looked natural, I don't like tits that look fake.
As for the other question. I like to talk with the lady and get to know each other a bit. I like to spend the cool down time laying with her in my arms talking.
I also get turned on by women in sexy lingerie.
So don't get a boob job, put on a sexy teddy, and be prepared to snuggle, and I would be in heaven (or as close as I can get with what I'm thinking right now).
The boobs are not a deciding factor, bigger/smaller/firmer all that is just part and parcel of a whole package. H & W proportionate is what I look for. I had one session with 2 very different women once (Bridget and Miranda) and truly enjoyed both of them.
None of the wham/bam and I am gone stuff for me. I like the relaxing and lounging around preparing for another round with idle chit chat. It's nice to find one or a few things in common with hobbies or interests but not forced. A forced/faked conversation is just as bad as a forced/faked orgasm.
In my opinion, for what it counts, having just graduated from the newby world, I would say...
I am NOT in favor of implants. In fact, if I see a review of a provider any more who has them, I go elsewhere. Fact is, those I have seen are rock-hard and soooo unnatural. I have head trauma from being beat up by a couple of them! lol What I like are naturals. It tells me a woman is comfortable with her body and and herself, and that translates into a great time. They are not trying to be someone they really aren't.
Same for a lot of tats. A few ok, but some providers look like they went swimming in a pool of ink. Total turn-off.
As for the second question, I prefer the slow approach. I usually go for a two-hour appointment first time around, and often on subsequent visits. I have never been the S-B-T-M type of a guy. I want conversation. I like to hear what the provider wants to say. I like to feel that they actually care about me. Makes my life much more interesting. This is supposed to be a fun hobby. Why not meet an interesting person in the process? Besides, that is how you get my repeat business.
I'd rather be with someone who cares and listens...and vice versa. This in its' self adds to the other actvities. I've never been a wham-bam thank you-er. Nor a flavor of the week or month kind of guy. Nor of travelers as well.
many generations of boys/men, as to the "ideal" body to yearn for as a tryst partner. My ideals are from the era of Janet Pilgrim, Lili St.Cyr, Sophia Loren and Kim Novak (most are thinking who the heck are they). The fact is, no matter the age and type, I have found that the most important thing is to spend my time with someone who actually likes and cares to spend our limited time together. If there is a connection, I try to arrange some time for drinks and/or dinner, to cement the connection that will lead to a long series of dates.
To the first point ... as with so many things in life, e perience truly does matter. The "mature provider" is almost always the preferred provider. They are grown up! They have a "firm" personality. They have a clue .... in so many ways ... but, to the point, what to do with themselves, their bodies, their customers bodies ... they know how to relax and have fun. The "youthful provider" is generally at a total loss to entertain completely, as they don't understand what it really means.
"Natural versus modified" is another question entirely ... or maybe that was the question you were asking ... either is fine by me. What really matters is how the provider feels about themselves and what they do with it all.
As for your 2nd query, if I desire a "companion" (with or without amenities) then (in the US) an "escort" is clearly called for. All I'm aware of only provide companionship, no more, no less. If one simply wants to get laid, most communities have the functional equivalent of a brothel and you should visit it ... or an immature provider (see above).
Of course, I can only speak for myself ... and I honestly have no idea how my opinion relates to the PREVAILING desires. As a rule, though, my opinions are antithetical to prevailing trends, so don't build your "go to market" strategy on me.
A NSA session with natural either either knock out or mature body. Turn - ons : Responsive to my overtures, enjoys receiving as well as giving and a no-rush session.
Hard vs mature? That's a tough one. I guess I enjoy the variety. That is one of the reasons that I am in the hobby. I prefer to spend time with the provider. At least get the "feeling" that she cares and listens, with some real affection thrown in. We can get the WBTYM on CL.
1st part I have seen boob jobs that turn me completely off.Way to big and out of proportion but i do love firm natural breasts and boob jobs that are done to proportion. 2Nd part--I want to feel the connection between us.Getting to know each other is very important.It makes things sooooo much better. Some providers are way to mechanical,cum and done i call it.I never repeat those. If i wanted to be alone id get myself off and save the donation. Ill take the caring,communicating provider any day. JMO
Body-wise I have to say I prefer implants, unless the natural boobs are 'large enough', but age-wise varies depending on mood. I generally go for women closer to my own age (44), give or take a few years (actually I PREFER older than me).
Body-wise I don't really like rail-thin, but one that is relative to age.
Session-wise is easy....take our time, BIG on the GFE aspects (especially DFK and plenty of oral play by both of us)..multiple hours, multiple rounds.
Great discussion topic, MM, but, first of all, aren't all hobby sessions assumed to be NSA?
The first part of your question deals with the physical. I almost always prefer naturally fit bodies, with variances allowed for chemistry and personality. Fake boobs say to me either, "Hello, I'm lame, shallow, and insecure" (most likely) or "Hello, I'm a savvy businesswoman who has invested in my marketability to maximize profits" (more likely found in Vegas).
Hmmm . . . how honest shall I be? What the hell: When I click "advanced search" on TER, among all my other desired characteristics, when I come to the category "breast implants" I always check "no." For me to deviate from my standard policy, she better have a hell of a lot going for her in other categories. For example, when her ratings are 9s across the board for two and more pages, I'll sit up and take notice.
The second part of your question deals with chemistry and personality. Definitely not interested in the "wham." But, I don't know if I'd go so far as to expect a provider to "care" about me. Business is business, ultimately. However, in the "real world" I often become good friends with people I do business with on a regular basis, so I don't think it's too far-fetched to expect some genuine affection and interest from my hobby "business partner," just as I'm happy to see a guy at a trade show once a year and go out for beers afterwards. I genuinely enjoy meeting new people and learning what makes them tick and what they've learned about life, and hope for the same in providers. We can hit if off without having to get married, can't we?!
If you're a person with passions, opinions, and interesting experiences, our conversation will be enjoyable. If your idea of a good time is six hours on the couch with your bag of Cheetos and watching TV, we might not hit if off. (Certified Vikings fans excepted!)
although I have seen a few younger ladies, and enjoyed myself. I just feel that mature ladies are more likely to have common interest with me. As far as the boobs go, I only have a few requirements. If you have two of them, they are each on the correct side, and you let me touch them, I'm a pretty happy guy.
For your second question, I prefer dinner dates. My playtime is limited to when I travel, so I like to make the most of my opportunities. My favorite is to enjoy a little playtime, followed by a nice dinner, and then return for dessert.
Seems like alot of the younger providers are to mechanical. Age gap coould account for some of that.Ive had much better experiences with mature providers.35 and up.
Defining things in terms of age and body type might be OK for some but for yours truly such things are in and of themselves largely irrelevant. Men are simple creatures, the basic accoutrements are all that is required...
If the conversation flows naturally then chronological age is insignificant, if not then the older provider has an advantage just based on life experience, however the energy and exuberance of youth, when combined with a a sharp wit, is rare and intoxicating blend.
The art of conversation is dying in America as we polarize ourselves and seek out like minded thinking and media rather than intellectual challenges. For this reason alone I tend to seek out British and European providers over Americans when traveling. Brains are sexy!!!
I believe that 1 hour appointments are too short for someone who actually wants to connect with a provider, especially on a first date. I think that measuring the appointment solely based on chronological time reflects a fundamental flaw in western culture and ultimately works to the detriment of both provider and client.
As a business person I think there is huge opportunity being missed by providers who are by and large all working on the exact same business model and not really doing anything creative to distinguish themselves with regards to the fundamentals of how they do business.
I personally think that the top tier of providers should ask themselves if the old legacy way of doing business solely based on charging by the hour is really the best business model? If you read through enough reviews you can't help but notice that "not a clock watcher" is a recurring and universally positive comment. In my view this reflects and untapped opportunity.
I would personally be super turned on by a provider who was smart enough to figure out how value based pricing could be applied to this business.
I think that providers suffer needlessly because the way they choose to earn their living just happens to be illegal. E.g. there are no college courses on how to be a successful escort...
Despite this fact there are a few providers I have met, and one in particular who posts here on a regular basis and who I have not met yet but hope to meet soon (if you think I am talking about you PM me and if you are right I'll make it worth your while, that seem to have a tremendous amount of business savvy and could end up with big rewards for taking a little risk.
In the same way that reviews often reveal as much or more about the client than they do about the provider your post suggests to me, based on the way it is written, that you are looking for validation that there are men out there who are looking for something more than a mindless young nubile sex toy. Rest assured that there are indeed many men who have more refined tastes and are looking for intellectually stimulating experiences....
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