Check the pic.  And isn't this breaking the cardinal rule of the hobby?  I know we are buying a service but we are not also buying discretion?  What a bitch!!!

According to the story, the guy originally booked the lady to perform stripshows in his home.  then she got greedy and threatened to expose him to his wife and church if he didn't come up with hush money.

when he couldn't come up with enough she went ahead and told everyone about the relationship and the poor guy's life is now in shambles. he had to resign from his church as pastor and is thoroughly humiliated in the community.

this pastor even though I feel for him did so many things wrong. first of all, it you know that your life is such that any hint of scandal will send you tumbling into ruins, DON'T BRING WOMEN INTO YOUR HOME!!

If you're a swinging bachelor with plenty of time and zero commitments and you can tell any potential extortionist to kiss your ass, then perhaps. But a pastor of a church??!?

$500 monthly on hotel fees would look like a pittance compared to the trouble he's in now.

But let's just say that was not an option and he now finds himself accused in public. I say men nowadays need to grow some balls. This is 2009, not 1989. Don't let the words of some skanky ho ruin your life. Fight fire with fire. Go on the offensive. Destroy her as she is attempting to destroy you. Explain to everyone how you were weak once and now this dragon is attempting to milk you dry for your human mistake.

Can you dupe her into taping one of her extortion phone calls? Even better.  Use it all.  Tell your congregation that you have fallen short of the glory of God but you are determined to not let evil triumph and you will fight this jezebel with all you have.

You'd be surprised. People are willing to forgive a lot if you just ask them. Nowadays dalliances with a prostitute is not the kiss of death it once was and there is no need to have your tail whipped between your legs and lose up everything you've built thus far in your life.

The professor in Philadelphia is another one who could have used a set of balls to keep his job.

I guess it is right that a pastor be made to resign after being found in liason with prostitute. Pastors should be held to a higher standard. I just take umbrage when women use the stigma of prostitution against the very men who support them.

The police ought to make an example of this woman and charge her with extortion and have her do some hard time. Then legislators need to look into the suggestion that ho/john relationships be afforded the same protection as lawyer/client or doctor/patient.

what's sucked in the bedroom, should remain in the bedroom and out of the courtroom.

the rule that neither party should divulde enough information that the other can track them down and identify where they live or work.

How do you get by the screening process?

Depends on the screening requirement.  If it means a business/employment check, I pass.  If it means references from other providers, no problem.  Its also where a service like Preferred411 has major benefits.  If it means a peek at your DL, ok but keep your finger over the address.  

A new guy starting out without references will have more difficulty but eventually with some references, white list referrals on TER or a membership with P411 will keep you safe with anonymity.  

I haven't needed to divulge any personal info in years and have been declined by very few ladies.  

The latest mess with LE should teach everyone a lesson.  Some providers keep detailed records even though they claim not too.  Once busted, they will absolutely trade that info for a get-out-of-jail free card.

The problem is when a place like P411 gets busted. Same issue exists, trade for info.  Its tough getting going w/o the data release.