This is really getting infuriating. I was stood up at an intersection for the second time in two weeks. Last week China left me high and dry at an intersection, today East Indian Daisy pulled almost the same MO. The only difference was that she answered my call from the intersection, but acted surprised like she forgot she’d made the appointment and told me to give her an extra 15 minutes to get ready. That was the last I heard from her. I kept trying her back for a full hour and 15 minutes, because I just couldn’t believe it was happening again. I’m not that close to her location either. All in all, I wasted almost 3 hours battling traffic and waiting for her. This is totally unacceptable and just plain rude!
I am sure some of you must be thinking I am doing something wrong, but I really couldn’t be any more discrete. Here are the details:
Called her at 11:45 AM, and she answered.
ME: “Are you available for an afternoon appointment today?”
DAISY: “I will be available from 1 PM to 7 PM today, and then again late in the evening”
ME: “How about 1:45?”
DAISY: “Have you seen me before?”
ME: No
DAISY: “Can you tell me a little bit about yourself?”
ME: “What do you want to know?”
DAISY: “Like what do you look like?”
ME: I gave a brief description. I won’t go into detail here, but I am a good-looking, in-shape white guy of average height. I can’t imagine any provider would have a problem with my physical description.
DAISY: “You want to know my rates?”
ME: I already knew her rates, but let her tell them to me to make sure since she asked. I DID NOT ask about any specific acts, so as to be discrete. That is what TER is for. I already know what’s on her menu. All I did was call to set a time! I didn’t ask her anything else except whether I’d be assured to get the hole hour if I chose that option when she gave rates for both half and full hour. She assured me that I would, because she is an independent and not an agency. So I agreed that, that being the case, I’d do the full hour.
Daisy: “OK, Call me when you get to such and such intersection.”
ME: (Calling from intersection) I am at such and such landmark.
DAISY: (Acting surprised, like she forgot she’d made the appointment) “Can you give me 15 minutes?”
ME: “OK”
15 minutes later, I called her back and got no answer. I called back many more times over the next hour, and left messages, but never heard from her again.
After waiting for 1 hour and 15 minutes, I called and told her that I guess I’d been stood up and that I would have to leave a warning on TER about her standing me up. I told her I’d like to give her a chance to explain what happened first though, and that I would still appreciate a callback from her. I still haven’t heard from her.
I feel like hanging it up. I would never treat anyone so poorly. This type of behavior is beyond rude. For the record, all the girls I have managed to actually meet so far have been very nice. I’ve gotten along great with them and had good times. I am sure they would all say I’m a nice guy.
I pretty understanding too. I certainly understand that unexpected circumstances arise, and that a girl might need to cancel at the last minute. It just blows my mind, however, that anyone would believe that flat out standing someone up, wasting a big chunk of their day, and giving them no explanation whatsoever is acceptable behavior!
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It pains me to say this, but you are not the only one who has
been stood up or jacked around nor will you be the last.
I have no advice to give to you in order to avoid these
situations, I can only state that it is these providers
who give a bad name to all of the industry, it is a shame to
say the least because there are so many providers out there
who are nothing but wonderful. It angers me that these selfish
and snotty providers do the shameful things that they do and
then wind up giving an otherwise respectful provider the job
of cleaning up after them. All in all thanks to TER there is
some recourse for us in finding the good ones!
It's unfortunate of those who do give girls a bad name, because not all are like that. The only suggestion that I have is try to develope a communication with the lady prior to requesting an appointment, by way of email and/or phone call. You don't even have to discuss "private" matters, but just let her know that you might be interested, would like to set something up sometime in the future, and even suggest getting the verification out of the way. IME, I have had better luck with those who I've talked with prior to either of us committing. It also helps get rid of some of the nervousness. Maybe if you try it that way, then when you do call one of these girls to see them same day, they'll already be familiar with you through conversation, and feel more at ease keeping the appointment.
Good luck - remember - they aren't all bad!
I’d be fine with the email thing, but RedHead is the only provider I’ve found that answers her email. Unfortunately, she doesn’t do incall. I think that most providers ignore email unless they aren’t booking up via phone. I haven’t had much luck getting messages returned either. It seems like most providers book the guys that just happen to catch them at just the right moment and talk to them live, and only return phone calls or emails when they aren’t able to book up that way.
For example: I emailed Anastasia quite a while back, and never got a response. I few weeks later, I left her voice mail, and never got a response. A week later I called and she answered. I set up an appointment with no problem, met her the same day, and everything went great. In fact, I was pleasantly surprised at how nice she was. I knew she had good reviews, so I knew she was a good performer, but was slightly concerned by how “icy” she looked in her second picture on Eros. Well, fortunately that fear couldn’t have been more unfounded, LOL. She was super friendly, and very down to earth--really, really nice girl! I’d highly recommend her. Oh, and she has the nicest, firmest, natural B cups I’ve ever seem--with awesome nipples that stand at attention. 
So, yes, there are definitely some good eggs out there! The fact remains, however, that priority is most definitely given to the lucky blokes that just happen to call them at just the right time to catch them live.
Most well-known providers do accept email and phone conversation prior to committing to an appointment. Just looking at this board, I see at least 3 girls who would welcome this - and they all offer incall. You just need to try! If the girl doesn't return your email or call - oh well, her loss. There are enough girls out there that you can be picky!!
I intended to PM you, but you're not a VIP member. The gist of my message was that you would probably not experience this if you chose the more highly rated ladies in the Twin Cities.
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You can do that if you are looking for a standard white girl, but as I mentioned before, once you start looking for something more exotic, for a change of pace, your options are limited in the Twin Cities (at least with locals). You have no choice but to lower your standards as far as ratings, or take a stab in the dark and go with a completely unrated provider.
I've never stood anyone up but I occasionally get stood up so I know it works both ways!
xoxo
Michelle Peters
