Minnesota
As my first post, I would like to share my experiences as a newbie. I won't get into my situation, and other philosophical discussions, other than to say that I am a very normal guy who just can't seem to make the time to meet women the traditional way (my 70 hr work week and very dynamic schedule is harsh on social life). Needless to say, I was VERY nervous about taking the plunge on my first visit (and still am to some extent) - not simply. So of course, I read all the reviews, etc. and finally made the plunge. I am sure it is not a surprise to anyone here that there is a certain "perception" of providers out there - and I confess that I did previously hold some of those perceptions.
I consider it a great pleasure and honor to have visited two providers so far - Hilary and Alantra (I hope it's o.k. to mention them). I cannot say enough about these two incredibly wonderful and beautiful women. They both seemed to understand where I was coming from and how to make me feel at ease in their company (and I am not just referring to physically). They have blown away any preconceived notions I had on providers and made me feel that I am not some kind of pervert for needing companionship that I honestly do not have time for "normally".
To wrap this up - Thank you Alantra and Hilary! Also thanks to all the posters who help rookies with valuable information on what to watch for, etc. If any fellow rookies are reading this, read the information provided here. It's good to be cautious, but also be willing to put behind any preconceived notions you have when you take that first step. If my opinion is worth anything at all, you cannot go wrong Alantra or Hilary! I am sure there are other providers that are great - but I honestly am not sure I will ever get around to them unless they both retire 