I am looking for a provider who may be interested in going exclusive. This may be a good route for those concerned about recent events. I am not looking to take up much of your time. I have the desire and means to accomplish what I seek. I am not LE and am legit. I am highly selective. Mutual chemistry is required.  Age is not important. However, I am not interested in flakes or druggies and you must be intelligent, highly discrete and available for daytime meetings.
Please reply by PM.

you have seven posts since 2/22/09..based upon current events....will be hard..although your idea is one being thought about more n more by all concerned.

Rather than look for an escort, why not try any of the big sugardaddy dating sites? There are plenty of beautiful women, more than willing to be exclusive.  And, for a lot less per month/week/day than most escorts might need or want to give up their current occupation.  Of course, if you visit the sites, you will see a number of working girls there, using those sites for another venue to advertise.  But most women on tose sites are just normal working women, looking for a little extra, and hoping to find something NSA.  I have had wonderful luck meeting educated, classy, open- minded, romantic women there, who put lots of effort into making their partner feel special.

http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sugar_baby_looking_for_her_sugar_daddy_not_for_the_weak_at_heart_25/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=5329924

This is a great idea! Actually, I think more providers/hobbyists will be looking at this option as a result of recent events.

I have considered offering incentives to old friends. I would not go completely exclusive, but potentially offer 4 dates for the price of 3 or 2 or 1. Or, I would offer a "have me as much as you want" option for $1500/wk. Perhaps I should ponder that one a little more...someone would surely wear me out!

The only issue I see with your accomplishing what you seek is if you do not have any reviews/white lists or references. Also, I am going to assume a lot of providers are not going to see new friends as freely as they used to...at least in Minnesota.

Good luck!

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Sugardaddy4me.com

Seekingarrangement.com

Women from 18 to Whatever, and compensation ideas from very little to lots.  

Hello:
These arrangements only work short term.  The girls just wants well.... U know....and the gentleman usually want a girlfriend.  There are conflicting views when the gentleman wants to spend more time with the woman and she feels she deserves more...well, u know.  As long as the gentleman knows for certain that its an arrangement for an exchange....then it works! Otherwise it's a disaster!  
 The gentleman often wonder, "what is wrong with me"? "Why doesn't she want to date me"?  WELL..."because its an arrangement"!!!!!! And believe it or not...women have no problem separating the two!!!!! ***Hope this is helpful to you*** It's an ideal thing for both the man and the woman...but there has to be an attraction (even though it's an arrangement) or it WON'T work!  
 Best Wishes!  XO

I appreciate all of the feedback. I am aware of the other sites mentioned. However, along the lines of the comments offered by Jenny, unfortunately too often the women on sites like SD do not  fully understand how an arrangement works and the boundries or they are looking for a boyfriend. Fine with me, but that is not what I am looking for in an exclusive.
A couple of posts have seemed to question my legitimacy. To the extent anyone cares, I have lurked on this board for years and for the right person will be happy to put them in touch with a reference for me.
Should anyone want to simplify their life by going exclusive, just let me know.  
Thanks again for all responses.

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tall, short, thin, athletic, plus-sized, color, piercings, tatoos, age???  What type of lady are you looking for?  Specific details would probably be helpful or are likely to get many responses or NO responses.   Are you looking for someone with mutual interests?  What would those interests be? I pm'd you and said it would probably help to post this type of info but got no response.
 Just a suggestion to narrow your search and minimize your "junk" mail,
Hugs, Belinda

Thank you Belinda for your wise suggestion.
The "type" I am looking for can be more or less summarized this way-intelligent, head screwed on straight, reliable and honest. As far as physical appearance, I strongly prefer athletic or slim/petite. I don't mind a few tattoos or piercings. I am open to race but tend to prefer caucasian or hispanic. Age is usually only a number-it is the maturity, class and smarts of the person that matter to me.
I hope this helps anyone out there who is interested in chatting. Now, can I get a little help on how to access pm's? I know that sounds odd, but please keep in mind I am generally a lurker and not a poster.

Since the MFP and L.E. alot of active guys with many reviews and whitelist referrals have had TER remove everything and have started over with a new handle. Thus relying on old reviews and whitelists is going to be a problem for the girls. Better check your old regulars list because L.E. has changed the playing field