Unfortunately, the people who most need to take them to heart will ignore them.

......I've wondered how many guys think they can survive in the hobby with the attitudes that some of them bring.  Maybe a continous stream of new BP girls, who know nothing.  But, it has scared and repulsed me to read some of the reviews.  Thanks, Belinda, for linking on the Minnesota board, and thanks to the mods who originally posted.  Good stuff!

I know that some guys can be real jerks, it never occurred to me that so many find their way into this hobby.

Yes, it's a bit of a rant. But it serves as a reminder to us guys about the problems with which the ladies contend...