As an addendum to the post a couple down from here what is the best way to handle it if when you get there it’s not what you were thinking, either due to not looking like pictures, or even what you gleaned from reviews you have read. It seems to me we all have a different opinion of what a little bit heavy means!
Anyway I realize the providers go through some effort to get ready but there are times where both the little and big guy says let’s get the hell out a here!! She isn’t our type! But the heart doesn’t want to hurt the feelings of a woman who probably has enough self doubt already going on about herself.
I have left when an up sell happened, but usually tough it out when I’m in this situation and get out fast afterward and then feel like a bone head.
Are there any decent ways to do this??
Do you throw them a 20 and say sorry?
Guy’s, your suggestions welcome as well.
You are asking for responses from providers, on how they like the situation handled, when they post pictures that are so inaccurate that guys want to bolt. Do you really think the women who operate that way are going to come on here and admit it?
What do you expect them to say? "Yeah, I post phoney pictures all the time, and I guess I would like the John to toss me a $20 for my trouble?"
Who in their ads say "100% me or it's free!"
I am going to be completely honest here...keep in mind, this is only my opinion, so don't anybody go getting your panties in a bunch.
Most of the appearance ratings are extremely over rated on this board and in reviews. Take whatever appearance rating you see, subtract 3 and that's most likely what you're going to get. Price point being considered, $350+/hr, you're pretty safe...anything less and it's taking a major gamble. Most providers that are listed as average are actually overweight...nothing wrong with that if it's your type, but come on...be honest in the reviews. Appearance for the overall look/face is about the same....perhaps a lot of guys have beer goggles on when they enter a room.
Truth be told, I don't really think it matters that much as long as 135 pounds doesn't end up being 235 pounds. Anybody that has been doing this long enough already knows this...that's why we have our regulars who we know & count on.
All of that being said, I think that's all why we like this hobby...we never know exactly what we're going to get when the door opens. Could be a woman we wouldn't glance at twice on the street, or it could be a diamond in the rough.
This is a business...bottom line, if you don't like what you see (both hobbyists and providers), then turn around and walk away (don't throw away $20, you already spent gas money). We are all adults after all.
I know I will probably get slammed for this post, but at least, IMHO, I'm being honest.
Warmest Regards All...Peace.
You work hard for you money and should not have to settle for different from what was advertised. You were lied to just to get you there.
There are a lot of providers out there that don't understand that there is a market for everyone. There is really no limit to the variety of tastes among the male population.
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