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Honesty on review scores
I was wondering how honest we are when we rate a provider. DO we read her reviews and judge her accordingly to her prior reviews to not make her mad, or are we honest, and give the correct review if its not as good as expected?? Any thoughts?
You need to read a lot of reviews to get a reasonable picture. Generosity is common, but we should all be very honest if treated with disrespect.
The only trouble I have with honesty is when it may hurt someone's feelings unnecessarily. I try not to be too harsh if I can help it and still give an honest review.
I think it's unfortunate that gents cant be totally honest when writing a review because they are afraid of the backlash. I mean, we have to be honest, connections/chemistry can be hard to find. We as providers NEED to let guys be HONEST in the connection they felt with us.....sometimes it just doesnt happen....and that's ok!!!!! We need to ALLOW them to be honest in their connection with us, how they felt, the attraction, the chemistry............SOMETIMES I think guys are a bit abused (even tho, rumor has it, that ALL of us gals are abused by the guys!!! BS!) in this industry and are AFRAID to say what they really experienced. 10?? I mean, nobody's PERFECT!! NOBODY. I try to give the best service I can and am ashamed when I cant, or when we dont connect. But it's all about connection and chemistry!!!
I totally agree it is about the connection and chemistry! Some people may disagree but my opinion of a ladies looks are influenced by her inner beauty as well as how she looks on the outside.
However I also try to give an honest rating on looks to a lady I may not have had a great time with if she really has a great body, even though I may want to hold her down because of her attitude. But yet great smile is easly worth a point and likewise a real grump who does not want to be there should be downgraded... An "I could give a shit less" frown is just not good looking so that will get you a lower score. What I am trying to say is there is a lot more to a lady's good looks than her tits and ass.
TER does a decent job of trying to keep performance ratings numericly balanced based on things she will do... However there is no numerical rating for that "connection" and it is of significant importance, at least to me.
A girl has to really mess up to get a bad review, or be new. Some guys do give bad reviews on things that aren't the girl's fault, like she is a bigger girl and he likes spinners.
Most guys are pretty decent if they got their rocks off. Sex is incredibly subjective so if she does everything you asked and you just didn't click, a 7 or higher is usually given. Points are taken off for excessive rules, clock watching and other oddities like smells, roommates and pimps. ROBS must be reported ASAP and those girls don't usually have reviews.
You have to read a lot of reviews to get an idea of what they generally are saying.
If possible, get a feel for the reviewers. Some guys like lots of kissing and cuddling, others like to bang like the energizer bunny. The same girl will get very different reviews from different guys.
Also, if they have 10 or more reviews, do some averaging. Throw out the best and the worst and you'll get a good idea. Everyone has a bad day and every girl has a guy that thinks she is the best ever.
Finally, you have to hobby and see how the reviews fit your style. Do you need to see $$$$ girls to have a good time or is a $ blow and go more what you're looking for.
When possible, find reviewers who seem to like what you like; their info will be the most useful to you,
Sometimes good reviews are traded for discounted rates or special favors. Some guys are known to try to work deals for good reviews. By looking at reviews you pick them out.
Unless they are graded WAY out of the ordinary vs most or all of her other reviews not all the time. Though yes some ladies do give discounts or favors for a review (goes without saying a very good one).
Who is benefitting from inflated scores?
EXACTLY!! WE NEED review to be HONEST!!!!!! NOT BS!!!!! Guys are searching for truth
English speaking persons often use the word "example" rather than "a for instance."
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... but thank you for your efforts. You are so kind and helpful. LMFAO...
Was your failed attempt at taking a shot at me from an alias? Pathetic but a little expected....
I like to think I'm a damn great provider and I have a few fake reviews under my belt but they don't bother me much since the majority are good and complimentary. I say take each with several grains of salt because for every honest guy that can and does write a review so does a spiteful a--hole who didn't get everything he wanted (extra time, for you to do an act you didn't want to, he's never seen you but you turned him down, etc), some grade in line with how others have reviewed her (he found her hot or sexy even but he saw no one's given her more than a 6 or 7), etc.
Biggest mistake you can make is follow what everyone else that has seen her thinks. If you agree with them exactly great. Review her based on how the session went for you....that's it. Be honest about it (how she looked matches your tastes, and how great the session went for you). It doesn't make sense to score her how everyone else did....though they've been there before, they weren't there in the session with you & her.
I try to be as honest as I can when writing one. I don't include everything but I do try to present a fairly honest representation. Then when I'm done writing I let my dick proof read it.
That's my observation. Pretty darn frustrating and I wonder how many providers know that good reviews aren't accepted at times. I can see where some people would want to start making stuff up in the hopes of getting a review accepted.
This is what happen when you try to be honest. "They" will beat you to the curb. And because of that all my reviews were de-listed. Think twice before you post an honest review.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=117897&boardID=21&page=
It's ONE thing to be HONEST, it's another thing to be tacky, rude and distasteful. Some things should be said to the provider in PRIVATE rather than posting a tacky review for the world to see. Im all for honesty hun. Just be polite about it.
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