I was just kicking back relaxing with a cocktail Memorial Day afternoon when I got the call. It was the Texas State Hwy Patrol telling me that our 24yr old son was in a fatal motorcycle accident late Sunday evening. It's been a couple of weeks now and he's been laid to rest, but not a day goes by where I don't think of him.
Take care all, be safe and enjoy the summer....I'm going to try...

It is so diffficult to even relate to your loss, but all of us who are parents have a natural compassion for you.  Take care of yourself and keep his memory alive!   Thank you for sharing here!!!

.....how that feels...and no words are adequate to express sympathy.  Sometimes it's best to sit in mute solidarity.  

I have two adult daughters, and, yes, that's my worst fear.  They're the loves of my life, and an important part of me would die if either passed before I did.  Parents are NOT supposed to bury their children!

I weep with you.

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I am so very sorry for your loss. You & your family are in my prayers. I am a mother of seven, one of which I lost at birth. It was devastating. I cannot imagine the incredible sorrow you must be dealing with after having had 24 years with him & then suddenly he is gone.

Hugs!
Leann

and well meaning friends offered condolences & platitudes about the meaning of his accident. Listen to the condolences. Ignore the rest. We fought like cats & dogs, and I miss him every day.

Recovering from grief takes time, it is different for everyone but it will not happen overnight. Regardless of when you recover, you will likely continue to think of your son everyday. That is not a necessarily a bad thing and do not view it as a negative.

Best wishes to you in the days, weeks and months ahead.

I can't think of a more terrible notice for any parent to receive. I hope the good memories dull the pain soon.  Silversolder/Loki

This makes all of my troubles seem very small. I/we need to count our blessings!

only to let you know that one more person wants to extend his sympathies to you.

Everything else pales when compared to the loss of a child.  My deepest sympathies.

Losing a child has to be one of the most heartbreaking things to ever have happen.   I am so sorry for your loss.

I'm not a parent, so I don't want to pretend to know what you're through. I lost a good friend 2 years ago in October. We had made it a semi-regular habit to get a 12-pack of Newcastle and watch "Real Time with Bill Maher" on HBO friday nights. Drink, debate, joke etc. My neighbor called to express concern that she had left a few messages, and hadn't heard back - asked me to check up on him. As I was walking down the alley I saw the reflections of flashing red lights and I was thinking, "Oh Shit". Sure enough when I got in front and saw the ambulance, the driver confirmed it was my friend who passed away due to medical complications.

Anyway, my point is that it's very hard to lose someone you care about. Thanks for sharing this, I'm sure everyone here can empathize.

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I am a mother of 6 and lost my son in Afghanistan. I am here if you ever need to talk. Big hugs and kisses,T

I have never experienced it myself, but I know that it is something that takes time to deal with. Others that I know have lost their sons. Its devastating. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family at this difficult time Ranger.

I cannot imagine your sadness and pain.  May you be comforted by the memory of your dear son.

I am so sorry for your loss, no parent deserves that type of news and please take care of yourself and yours