Nothing more sexy than a beautiful woman is sexy lingerie.

When eye contact is made and the non-verbal signal of "you interest me" is conveyed in the way her eyes lock on mine, the slight curl of her lips into a smile, body language, etc. that's what captures my interest. It could be standing in line at the coffee shop - passing on the street - or sitting at the bar and the woman sitting across from me locks eyes with me. The amount of time our eyes stay focused on each other is obviously the most important part! Hold that focus - and you will have me eating out of your hand!

As a provider, the written "you interest me" is easy to establish - with me at least - by just taking the time to respond to an email with a reply that convey's a "I want to see YOU" flavor. You have hooked me when you have created that "I'm the only one" feeling, even when I know it's just a fantasy encounter. I will repeat if you keep it going after that 1st time. Blow me off or don't respond, be too short or non-flirty and you won't see me again. As a provider, you need to market yourselves and I think the best ones know how to set the hook and keep us hooked - especially if you charge a high dollar amount. For instance - a thank you after we meet, is a small detail but quite effective on me. Most don't do that. My regulars do - perhaps that's why they are my regulars!

For me to invest in your services - after all, it is your business - you need to capture my attention by creating that same "you interest me" feeling - or I will move on to the gal who does! Those are the providers I gravitate to, and have earned my repeat business.

nothing is more attractive and inviting than a smile.
I don't understand why so many adds and portfolios contain pictures without a smile.

depends (and not the adult diaper version)

I believe it starts with the first communication, either via email or telephone.  It is human nature to get a "feel" from the first contact and I believe this is lost in the business side of the arrangement.  To have a lady engage in an intimate conversation, written or verbal, once a level of trust and commfort is established, is a great way to start.  How many of you have discussed how excited you get the night before and how often the lead is let out of ones pencil upon disappointing first contact.  Granted, we all love that animalistic rendevous where both rip each others clothes off and fuck like animals...but this is short lived.  Why not take this initial level of excitement and enhance it to a point where the other wants more but you just aren't "ready" to give it.  Start from behind as you mold your body into mine, using your hands, feet, lips as an extension of your mind...taunt, tease, lightly touch to show just where this may lead...but don't rush it.  Tell me what you want in a way that is natural, in a way that leaves no question in my mind.  I want to know what  turns you on, what makes your pussy wet beyond levels you thought were possible..what causes your nipples to harden without my touch.  Whisper in my ear to tell me or guide my hands to show me.  Take your time..make it last..make me want to melt your clothing away.  every man thinks he is the greatest lover, or greatest fuck on earth.  I also know many men want to know what truly turns you on as some get huge pleasure out of pleasing.  Allow me to please.  I could  go into more detail but not sure you want to hear it.

For me, those little things right off the top, are important.  To me, coming out of the bathroom to find the lady lying fully nude on the bed is NOT a turn-on.  I'd prefer a little conversation, a little mutual undressing, slowly working toward the main event(s).  Follow-up e-mails (as someone mentioned) are also nice.

A smile, A hug, "Hi", The Kiss.... Then the "come hither, follow me into the bedroom" look.... Sh*t, now I'm horny as hell.....

the non verbal looks...the way your hand touches mine or my leg...and the DFK how much she loves to do that will get me going more than anything...especially if she thrusts her body into me..

Smile.  A nice and friendly greeting (preferably with a sensual kiss and a warm hug).  Be enthusiastic.  Get me to "suspend my disbelief."

Awesome Post!

Xoxo,
Amber Monroe