Especially if you hobby at night. I will still leave everything in my car and park in a public area during the day.

This Works For Both Genders!

My dad taught me to take identification, enough money to do what you need, including enough money to make a phone call if you need.  Frankly my friend......I'm more impressed by your demeanor, respect, and charm.  Your Rolex, other jewelry, and/or anything else other than the reason you visit me is......[fill in the verb].  We're (I'm) not out to marry you, or make you my sugar daddy.  Bring your good manners, and have a good time.

Any suggestions?

Yes...I suggest everyone follow your advice!

the only 100% surefire safe bet is to stop hobbying.   Short of that, keep doing what you are doing.

I don't like to take anything in with me that I don't minimally need for the session itself.  If venturing out from home or the office for just the purpose of hobbying, I don't take anything else along either so in the event my car is stolen or broken into while its parked, there is no loss or potential embarassment.  I never leave my possessions out of my sight while at a session, and if using the bathroom/shower I undress and dress in the bathroom (even my coat at this time of year).  Although its a rare thing for me and only at my own hotel room, an overnight with someone you don't know very well is extremely risky.  Learned this the hardway when I used to travel a lot to a particular island where the working girls typically were taken home for the night.  Woke up one morning and she was gone along with anything valuable that she could get in her purse.  (Thank god she didn't take my passport)

As for car protection, and personal security, some additional suggestions;

Don't park your car where it will be a magnet for thieves, especially if your ride is going to stand out amoungst others in the area.  e.g. if at night, no unlit streets and certainly not in the low rent areas of town, unless you have a "hobby" car (clunker nobody would be interested in, lol).  I especially loved hobbying while traveling because I would be using a rental car.  

Unless I know the lady well and know the area, I tend to avoid incalls to residences and choose only to see those at decent hotels (no budget hotels where lots of the BP types are working) and with lots of other activity going on, and where the provider is unable to see me drive up and identify my car.  I hate to visit someone in a motel with only exterior room entrances, even someone I know.  I will not see someone who tells me exactly where to park.  I am suspicious of that for two reasons - that a friend of hers could break into my car while seeing her, or they could use my plate number to identify me (thats not that easy to do but its possible if you know someone with the authorized access, e.g. a car dealer or tow company)  

I hate it when the provider wants to meet you down at the side door of the hotel to let you in.  I think thats primarily so they don't have to give you their room number.  I think thats way more suspicious looking than walking through the front door as though you are staying there.  And most hotels have now installed security cameras at all entrances.  (do you really want to be on a tape recording with you and the provider together?)  

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Thanks!

To answer a few questions:

I do visit BP girls because I like variety and I have better luck getting appointments. I have a few repeats that I trust, but the first date is always risky. I try to minimize the risk while having fun.

I often hobby between work and home, thus I have all of my work stuff; briefcase, watch, rings, wallet, phone etc. I could go to the club and lock things up, then to the date and then back to the club, but this restricts dates to places near my gym. Showering at the Gym before returning home is a great idea, some girls go overboard with the massage oil.

After everything that has happened in Mn over the last few years, it seems to make sense to stay paranoid. We are most at risk when we let down our guard. Until the prudes make transactions between adults legal, we all have to be extra careful.

I have no wedding ring so it is not an issue with me, and I would rather put my valuables in my car prior to the visit. I even put away my conceal-carry Glock for fear of letting the lady think I am LE. If I remotely suspect that I might need the pistol, I probably should not have made a date with the lady. Seriously, what is the likelihood that someone could break into your car in an hour or so in the parking lot of a decent hotel? I would not visit with anyone in the bad parts of town, for my own safety and hers.