… who can answer that question for you. It’s your money.

As for me, I only do oral if the lady would like me to do it. If she’ll charge me extra for it, I figure she doesn’t want me to do it all that much. We’ll find other activities to do together.

Find someone else then. We've gotta stop paying for all these upgrades. A lot of this stuff was standard with a lot of girls years ago (short of FS). Cut these girls revenue streams and maybe they'll get in line if they want regular business? If they upgrade to FS then they need to just be escorts. Don't masquerade as massage girls who will "do more". Get legit massage girls who give a real experience without going all out.

God the massage girls used to get up on the table with and/or on you. Rub their bodies on you. Make out and cuddle up with you. Use their tongue over your body. Grind on you - stripper slide. Let you finger their pussy. Get naked in the room with you from the very beginning. Tease a blow job with their lips or actually give a blow job. Lick their pussy. I remember one or two even let me pop more than once. Shower with you at the end. None did all of these things but often you could expect at least one even on a first visit. None of it cost a penny more.

The massage game has severely fallen off and it's not cool. I long for the days of Dani/Paige, Scarlette, Charlotte, (Carmen when she was on her game) etc. So yeah, stop paying for the extras and even to the point of not even tipping them. The service isn't worth it. Just a standard rub and tug? Fine. Whatever. I'm not giving extra money for something they aren't enthusiastic about doing in the first place.

/rant