Right or wrong, it makes people wonder if you are who you say you are.  You might do better if you do some research and then ask questions about specific providers.

Hello TER members/providers

I dont want this to sound lame, but I moved back to Minneapolis recently from CA.  While I was out there, I had my first adult experience at Southside Studios massage in Berkeley.  I loved it and would like to find massage studios in the area similar to it.  Safe, clean and you get a good variety of talent and the service you came to receive.  Any suggestions, I prefer to hear from non providers.

Is this not the place to ask?  OK, insider/provider feedback would help to this question.

Send me a PM, or email, let me know if its wrong to ask here too.

I kind of figured that too, thats why I came here to do the research.  I was looking on CL and then discovered the backpages recently.  But those all seem to be individual providers.  The only place that fit the profile was Ban Sabai in Uptown, since it was the secure location and it described my kind of place.  I'm also at a loss from being married and cant search around all day on my home computer.  I know its not good to post, general so a private message is appreciated too.  

Looking for a little help, thinking of going to UHHmassage or Bliss.  Any Ter members ever go there?  Will this provide the services I need.

Simply put, you will need to do your own research.  You can ask and ask but without reviews and with no posting history, you will likely not get the help you seek.  The gentlemen here, and the ladies too for that matter, watch out for each others safety and security.   We've been through alot as a hobby community over the last year or so and as a result we have gotten a little more cautious as to who we share information with.     Right or wrong, that is just the way it is.  

Do your research and if that means paying for VIP, then do so for a month or two and find the information you seek.   Once you find one or two providers that fit your needs, then you can cancel your VIP membership and you will not be out too much extra funds.   We are all on a budget but spending a few extra dollars now to ensure a safe meeting and a good fit will save you tons more money down the road.

Good luck and play safe!
Belinda

Thanks Belinda, I understand and will do that.

Well, put... benig new myself, I found this advice to be spot on!