I've visited a few ladies some on a regular basis. I have been away from the hobby for a long time. Now when I want to see a provider I don't really have any references that have not retired or just would not remember me. I have never written any reviews so I  can't be checked out that way. I'm just not one to give intimate details of a date. I was just wondering what else I could do(besides craigslist girls)that would make the providers comfortable and so I could actually see a quality provider again.

name,place of employment,cell phone,work phone,address,wifes name and blood type of 1st born child,and you never know you may be giving info to LE.i understand your concerns tcguy,my best advice would be local providers that you can see and at the same time trust to give you a reference,if that is not possible you may want to travel. on a recent trip to las vegas had many dates with providers and was never screened,same in miami,once you have seen some quality providers they will be more than happy to reference you.good luck!

Join a verification site.  And post this on the newbie board.

Newbie board?  He's got almost 1,500 posts the past 5 years.  TCG is an institution here!!

It's a newbie issue and the best place to get advice for his question.

give out info to databases and you may get fucked in a way you dont want

snoopin4fun has got it right,remember my fast pass? do not give your personal information to any database in this hobby.