I've noticed several missed calls on my phone lately, with no messages left.  FYI...... I work an office job from 8 to 5, M-F, so I can't answer my business phone during those hours. (I think my boss just might disapprove of my extra-curricular activities)  However I do have opportunity to check my email several times a day while at the office.  So, if you're trying to reach me you may want to try email first, or leave a message on my phone with instructions on whether or not to return your call.  I WON'T return a call without being told it's okay to do so.  I do hope to hear from you!  Keep trying!

Kat,  Be careful.  A lot of employers monitor employee internet activity.  What if he got your yahoo address or your website url?  Not trying to be "dramatic" here.  Just tell guys you return email in the evening.

If your employer monitors internet activity heavily enough, they can see everything you do.

YOu might want to switch your business phone to a cell phone.  1) Is more confidential - not easy to do a reverse phone number lookup and find your address, etc.  2) While you probably can't answer it at work, you will be able to check for missed calls and phone mails easily and discreetly.  All cell phones come with free caller ID too.

Thanks so much guys for your concern.  I will limit the office email use, for sure!  I do have a separate prepaid "business" cel phone, but I usually just leave it at home so that certain people don't find out that I have it.  I've learned alot from reading posts here, and have taken as much advice as I can to be safe.  I appreciate you all!  Thanks!

take it from whoever, whenever, and even when it's bad you can still learn from it.

Grasshopper, you have so much to learn....

and I'm loving every minute of it!