Below is the information of what some terrible excuse for a human did to Vanessa. Someone commented "did you report this to the authorities; these crimes need to be reported to them". While I wish that was the case and that it was only that simple, That's the tricky part of doing what we do.

Reporting to the authorities is opening a lot of ladies up to trouble themselves.

Another massage gal and I recently had an issue with a man (who also happened to be a public Twin Cities lawyer) who was harrassing us every which way from Sunday. in example, I woke up one Sunday morning at 715am to a text from him saying he was "coming to my house to talk about why I wouldn't work with him or date him".

You know what we felt like we could do about it? Nothing, that's what. If we would like to keep our own privacy, we need to do that. With most of us ladies, we have zero rights because of an oppressive government, we can only use our bodies the way "THEY" tell us we can.

It's a sad day in America when people can't to as they please with their own person when they're doing nothing but giving pleasure to others... Well unless your in to BDSM, that is

In any scenario, I just thought this topic deserved it's own thread.

Happy Friday, Everyone and play safe.
Annette D'Angelo

It's the cold war doctrine of Mutually Assured Destruction.  It seems that both sides hold the power to destroy the life of the other, but will no doubt destroy their own lives in the process.  

That's why it is always dangerous to see someone who has nothing to loose.  

This is meant as an answer.  Just a comment for discussion.

It's the cold war doctrine of Mutually Assured Destruction.  It seems that both sides hold the power to destroy the life of the other, but will no doubt destroy their own lives in the process.  

That's why it is always dangerous to see someone who has nothing to loose.  

This is meant as an answer.  Just a comment for discussion.

Where I come from woman are treated with respect and thats the way it should be. Sad that there is a few that do not know how to treat a lady.

that LE will leave the prostitution charges slide and go after the guy for what they deem a worse crime....  rape and burglary.   Since this was a case of ATTEMPTED rape and burglary, I don't know if the same is true.   I do believe that if more of these attempted assaults were reported fewer would occur.  Because of the fear and uncertainty attached to reporting, I am sure it happens more often than any of us hear about.

This is why screening is so very important.   It is also why it is important for the women to stick together in this....there is noone else watching out for us.  All we have is each other.   I know we all have our personal boundaries and I'm not saying we all have to be each others best friends but when it comes to safety I do think it is in our best interests to have each others backs.  

Stay safe ladies!
Hugs, Belinda

Well stated. If we all just respected one another the way we should, this would be a much brighter topic!

Belinda,

I agree with you. I know sometimes it seems like a drag for you guys to have to screen out with us, but please understand that we have to and even sometimes screening is not enough, so bear with us and know that when I feel safe, and you feel safe, the session is just all that much better!

Vanessa, please get the information on this guy out there to us, either on the providers board or if you don't know how, please let someone help you do it or put it up for you. I'd hate to see another one of us encounter this jerk. Provider Buzz is also easy to sign up for and is free to post on.

Very glad to hear that you are ok and so sorry you had this encounter in the first place.

Hugs, J. xxxoo

LE doesn't care about your situation but care to get off the street a potentially dangerous man. If everyone would think about others instead of just themselves we would live in a better place.

The charge for prostitution for a girl is a misdeameanor if any at all when reporting a crime. So by your reasoning you let a dangerous person around because you are afraid to some possible minor consequences to you?? WOW...

Not to mention a double post that I cannot explain.  

I meant to say "This is NOT meant as an answer."

I don't I or anybody else has an answer.  

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It's not going to matter to the LE that I have a guy that calls me too much when I'm in the line of work I'm in.

They don't play nice, so I don't play with them. If someone actually hurt me physically, yes, I would them tell them. I'm saying for the situation at hand (my harrassment and Vanessas attempted robbery etc) no. Since there's probably not enough to bring any charges, it would be more worth their time to note that the girl is in the line of work that she is and start their seperate investigation.

Perhaps I'm way off base here but it's what I think of our "authorities" and how they opperate. We're all intitled to our opinions

I do my best to keep my girls safe by letting them know everything from IP addresses of the perps, all known phone numbers, websites, emails and lucky enough for me, my guy has his photo plastered all over the Internet, so that was easy enough.