The providers that scare me are the ones that are not doing their screening prior to our meeting and the ones that deliver truly poor quality experiences.

For example, I recently met a young provider that required me to prove that I was not law enforcement by lowering my pants and underwear (a hobby first) in order for her to touch my private parts.

Also, I was recently attempting to set a meeting with a provider that required the gentleman interested in seeing her to prove that they were not affiliated with law enforcement prior to a visit.

In any case, the providers that really scare me are the ones that deliver a truly poor session. I met a provider last week that made me question all of my abilities as a hobbyist. It was my worst experience in nearly six years of participation in the hobby.

The provider had three positive reviews on this site. I sometimes feel that reliance on reviews themselves (without any back-channel information) still means that I am flying blind into a meeting.

Once in a while I'll see a provider who's mentally imbalanced, who starts talking at length about her personal life, or asking me questions, whose affect is disjointed.....that is scary.  I'm curious if providers run into hobbyists like this.