It's generally too dangerous to see providers when she is in country, as any slight scent, such as makeup, etc, can be detected and hard to explain.  So for that reason I don't see providers unless she is out of country. She can be gone for several months (visiting family.)  That's when I play.

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Much like Lester,  either when she travels or I travel, I’m still quite new at this, but I think this is my game plan.

When I am very active hobbying I keep a "go bag" ready with toiletry items and a change of clothes so I can clean up before and/or after a session for when I have an appointment after work or a tight timeline and cant groom at home.

Razor and shaving cream, deodorant, toothbrush and toothpaste etc..

If you do something like that make sure it matches what you use at home, don't have anything that would give off a different smell or taste than what you would have normally.

A good provider that offers a shower for cleanup afterwards will usually have some body wash and shampoo type products available but they are often something scented.

Ladies, find something like Eucerin non scented body wash, no smell is better than something scented.  Link below.

Does Couer de Lion spend every conscious moment of his life commenting on the TER national board?

Back when I had a Job i just took a few hours off work and did daytime appointments.  My job included an office in the city,  long meetings, and business travel, providing cover and a place for a burner phone.  Now that I am retired I have a small business I operate that affords me days away from home and occasional travel out of town. I ditched the burner phone for a burner app disguised as a news reader that provides a real yet different phone number. I always shower at the incall at the end of the meeting.  I try to schedule the meeting with the provider early in the day so I have activities afterward that allow me to bring home things that are evidence of my business activity.  That's the how.

The why is an oft-told story, I imagine.  After almost 3 years of no sex due to changes in her health that made it no longer part of our marriage, I had an epiphany when reading a story about a former Olympian who became an escort.  I love my wife and would never abandon her, but I really did not want to forego sex with a woman for eternity. I also did not want to cause her or me the pain of a breakup just so I could have physical intimacy once or twice a month. So, after doing careful research and planning I entered the realm of the hobbyist and plan to stay there until I no longer have the interest or ability.  Thanks to lovely ladies like the OP, that should be many years away.