Toys for me, toys for you, toys for us!

1.  Do you agree or disagree that toys add to the hobbying experience?
Yes....Toys, add to all experiences in life.

2.  At what point do you introduce them?
Depending on the flow of the date is going, but usually in the first half.

I have more than .02 on this subject, but I'm not going to discuss them at this point.

Thank God It's Fuckday!

XO,
SG

Re: Toys for me, toys for you, toys for us!

I think toys should be set out like silverware at a dinner party. You may not be planning on desert but it's good to know you have a fork if you decide to sneak a taste of pie at some point. (With Samantha, desert is served early and often. Yum!)

I don't think I have ever been in a relationship where we haven't used toys and it also adds to the experiences I have with providers.  I was introduced to one yesterday that was very new to me, but I would do (almost) anything for this girl, so we said what the hell.  It was "shocking" how much we both liked it.

2 questions:
1.  Do you agree or disagree that toys add to the hobbying experience?
2.  At what point do you introduce them?

This is the third time I have seen the lady I mentioned (uh oh, appearance, performance and personality, see post below) and we really got lost in the experience to the tune of a couple of hours.

Your thoughts?



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I've been thinking about getting a cock ring, although I've never even seen one. I would introduce your toy of choice right away. All she can say is no!

I think you should enlighten us as to the toy you are referring to.

The best toy I've used is an acrylic dildo with electrodes at the bottom.  Insert, and turn on the power; I am told it feels like getting f----d by an elephant.

As much as I would love to be the only one rocking her world I do have a streak of reallity in me.  SG likes toys and I love to see her enjoy herself.  Recently she said Holy Fuck Iv"e never had anybody use both on me at once.  If it was an act - Oscar time.  And I think she is a great acctress.  Part of what I"m looking for.

Love em! Wish providers advertised that more.  I'm pretty new and am not alwasy sure the best way to bring that stuff up.

I see your point.

You have a great sense of humor, Sunshine

I am blessed with multiples but introduce a toy and it will give a whole new definition to multiples.   You will lose track counting the number of orgasms.   Toys allow us to experiement and play and that adds a different dimension and variety to our fun that would otherwise not be there.  So, yeah, I love toys!!!

I LOVE my toys, going shopping with a guy to buy them is almost as much fun as using them with each other.

One of my favorite recent dates was spent sex-toy shopping at a local shop. We both got pretty aroused just walking around the store and trying to decide what to buy. Not only was it a great ice-breaker, but we got to learn about each other's fantasies, fetishes and kinks.

Toys are almost always a part of my VIP engagement. Sometimes for you and sometimes for me. I usually introduce them during foreplay. So far, nobody has gotten bent out of shape about the toy-play. If the outcome is multiorgasmic, what could possibly be wrong with it..lol?

xoox

I have always been scared of the cock-ring idea. Thankfully I was introduced to one recently by "her" & loved it. FYI - They are available at Wal-Mart for about $6.00 ! Toys always had a fun part of play for me and now I somehow seem less hesitant to bring them up when meeting someone because there is something for me as well as the other person.......a more balanced approach to play.