Posted By: Jamie.Solo
On my last visit to MN, one of the gents suggested that offering Massages/Body Rubs would be a good idea, since in his opinion, they are popular in MN. Which IS something that I offer- but I charge for time, not service - so whether you'd like to spend our time getting a massage or doing other fun things- the envelope doesn't change.
So, I read the OP- and it seems as if he is saying that her rates were too high, for her to offer massage and not be a licensed massage therapist. But, if you look at the ad, she posted it in the "Body Rubs" Section. To me, the word body rubs implies that you are not dealing with a LMT. Also, open minded is a pretty standard term - but that doesn't mean that she is going to do each and everything that she suggests. Like some have said- if you want to ensure a certain menu- seeing reviewed providers is the best idea that one can suggest.
Her being reviewless probably speaks to the fact that she is either new in the business, or a scam. And I don't see anything about her not being the girl in the photos, so maybe she is just new. We all have to start out somewhere, and at least when I was new, I didn't know what all the protocols were, and what using certain terminology in my ads would imply. I'm not saying to give the girl a get out of jail free pass, but for any adult services 100/160 is a pretty cheap price to be complaining. 20$ is a WHOLE HELL of a lot cheaper, to ensure that the girl does what you look for.
I don't know- maybe I am out of line, but I just don't get it... You have the tools to ensure that you get exactly what you want...You choose to go with something that you have not a clue of what you will get... And then you complain when it isn't what you wanted...
Sometimes even though your kinda smitten, you and your provider just don't click. Maybe you'll TOFTT a little less in the future?