Hello everyone. I was asked by my friend to NOT give her details, although, she is a great masseuse, among other things.

But since I really dont hang outside of my home (call me Xenophobic), I just wanted to toot my own horn.

1) I was extremely nervous
2) We were incredibly awkward
but 3) damn.. we both had fun, and she even joked about 'borrowing' some rent money.

But now its a matter of making new friends, and balancing the hobby. 1) How much do you guys think is too much?  Is 1x a month the norm, or do you guys do weekly?
2) I did the rubbing alcohol on my member even though we played safe to remove odors (preg wife at home), and OW!! whoever suggested that in the past is a sadistic person
3) How do you avoid questions? MN is a land of small town outside the cities. Hotels are next to main businesses or cafe's. I cant walk anywhere in a 20 mile radius without bumping into friends/collegues, etc.

Do you just stay far far away from your home area, or?

That and St cloud speficially - no good places to meet for a drink other than green mill/kelly - but i know people in there every time I go. I just dont have the time to travel out, so the incall was perfect, even if it was 4 blocks from relatives place

..but another thing is in st cloud no incall is reputable, and its all Backpage crap. Suggestions?

(maybe this should be in newbie section, but MN people will understand more than any other state really, so I figured relevant specific advice would best be found here)

1.  How often is an individual decision.  There are guys who see someone weekly or even more often all the way to guys who do this a handful of times a year.  Do what best fits your life without damaging your finances.
2.  Rubbing alcohol?  Where did you hear that?  I've never heard of anyone doing that before and if a provider wanted me to do that, I would not see her.  There are other ways to clean up afterwards.
3.  It's a lot easier if you can come into the cities but there are providers who work in the smaller cities and rural areas and know how to operate discretely
4.  Read the newbie board and get the VIP membership so you can do your research and find well-reviewed, reliable providers.  It's definitely worth it.

yeah - the rubbing alcohol was a suggestion made by another. one said they used alcohol wipes to avoid possible surface stds.

I got a bbbj.

I can see myself being easily addicted to this. However while i may be able to swing a few hundred a week, I just cant drive.

St cloud is a scary scene. I am waiting for some of the lovely ladies to travel, but the last time one beautiful young lady came up I was out of town with family!

(Darn families!)


Really though, this is much better than having an affair, assuming I can date safely