The best way....

The best way for this to not happen is give instructions to the gentleman going down on you.
They are not mind readers. Plus every woman likes something different. I myself like digital insertion accompanied with oral clitoral stimulation.
Tell them what *you* like, tell them you want more of what they are/were doing. Most men that go down want to please the partner they are with.
If you are unable to address your own desires, it might be hard to fulfill others.

But I agree, for the most part a dry scratchy cat tongue is just as awful as the slobber mouth.

Great post Ginger!

Meow,
Samantha sofa king Good

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE GUYS

Don't lick it like your a cat ,

This includes no too dry or too wet of tongue either  !

Ahahaha... I hear that!! I personally hate it when they do the flicky tongue thing like a snake, or try to move their head all around and they end up scraping you with their stubble. Definitely not fun for us ladies!!!

Hmmm.  Sounds like instructions should be included when we visit.

Re: The best way....

When enjoying one of my favorite meals, I encourage and appreciate pointers from the lady on what works best for her.

.......ummmm.....never mind.  Will have to ask in person..

I welcome and instruction.  Each women is totally different so letting us know what feels best is way better and more sexy than I will tolerate until I have to fake to get him to stop.  Plus it moves you closer to the "Forgot it was a Service" level

A session is rarely enough time to know what she **actually** likes.

All the more difficult when she wants you to feel like "you're the best." Makes it difficult to sort out. Well, maybe an overnight would make it easier, but we can't all swing that.

And who shows up with stubble, anyway??? (SashaLuv's post)

Ginger, you're a great topic starter!

I thought that it was very helpful. I used many of the techniques with my regular yesterday and she was thrilled! It ended up being one of my best times with her ever. The lady was Nyla Nyx.

http://bestsexpositions.com/free-videos/seymore-butts-how-to-eat-pussy-like-a-champ/

im always willing to take lessons on how to dine properly

in the moment, not after the fact on a discussion board. If a dude is going to give you head, he is doing it because he thinks it is pleasing you. If it isn't, both of you are having your time wasted. Tell him what you want him to do, I guarantee he will do it.

Re: The best way....

I graduated from the SG DATY school with high honors many years ago.  I would highly suggest everyone enroll.  The homework is hard, but the pay off is well worth it.  

Many thanks to my professor Samantha Good!

Elizabeth is a great teacher

We aren't mind readers, we're trying to read your responses. If they aren't strong, we usually figure it's just not your thing. Some like it hard, some soft, some vigorous, some teasingly slow, some with a finger or two, some like the mustache tickle, some like the nose on the button and the tongue probing the pussy, some like suckling, and some don't.

Pretty tough to guess which one you are

Exactly, Every time you're with a new chick, it's like you have to learn how to eat pussy all over again.

Paint the fence, side to side.