Over the years I have seen many providers that included a wide variety of personalities & skills. Some of the most popular didn't necessarily resonate with me, although they were pleasant, sweet and classy. I can count on one hand the providers who were "responsive" and truly enjoyed themselves. Last week I saw a low volume, experienced provider who truly enjoyed our time together. I could tell by the involuntary biological responses I observed while we were together.  

I have met several ladies that have made me believe they truly enjoy seeing me for reasons beyond the financial transaction. As a giver, I find few things more enjoyable than giving pleasure to a beautiful woman.

There once was a provider whom was very UTR, with whom I had seen over a period of about 2 years, She Really enjoyed the interaction between us, so much so, that on occasion, she would
leave all of the donation laying on the dresser when she left. That act in itself, informed me that
she was quite satisfied, and the fact that she would contact me from time to time, stating she was
in need of some attention, from me, with no requirements of me, other than to show up, with my A game, told me that she really enjoyed interaction with me.  

Wow...

There are drugs you can take to relieve those delusions.  

This is P4P so of course there is a financial component to every interaction. I pity you and the ladies tortured by your presence if you think they are so jaded and inhuman that they can't possibly find joy or pleasure in the company of their clients. It has nothing to do with sexual prowess it has to do with respect and the way I treat the people around me. You should try it, being a nice person doesn't hurt and people will enjoy being around you for reasons beyond your money.

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I love it when people get so sanctimonious. Your pity is valued as much as your delusions are.

You're not supposed to pay your girlfriend!  I hope I don't accidentally leave a couple hundred dollars on the dresser after hosing the old lady some time.  She could become suspicious.

IMO, for the most part, providers could not do what they do if they did not enjoy some aspect of their work. That won't and doesn't mean the same for every provider about every client.   Providers for the most part, enjoy meeting people and learning about the men they meet.  We learn from those we spend time with and share our selves with.   I always tried to find something that I enjoyed about each man I met, whether it be their looks, their nerdiness,  their sense of humor, their quirkiness,  their mind.   Do providers like the money?   Absolutely.  And, 95% of the time, providers would not meet you and would not spend time with you, if it were not for the money.   That does not mean it is ALL about the money.  It's about people,  respect, sharing, counseling, and healing.    

is winner is the one wrote that "chump" piece months ago.  

Try some of those meds to heal your broken heart, and may be some therapy to help you get over her. Try being nice, it doesn't cost any thing and it really doesn't hurt.

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Oh oh. You found me out!

Providers are like people in other lines of work.  Some of them really enjoy it, some don't like it at all, and some fall at various points in between.  And I'm sure they find some of their clients more pleasant to spend time with than others.

...but I did have a provider give me back most of my donation once. You can believe that or not, but it's true.

Believe it or not it happens. It's not all about capitalizing on their assets for everyone. Some of us are actually decent and desirable people.

Don't be angry over the doubt that others have.
If you have experiences similar to mine, just sit
back, and relish the memories of the experience.

For me the experience was quite flattering, and a confidence boost to boot! to realize that she
viewed me as desirable beyond the $$, but yet I also understood at all times, that it was a gift
to me from her, and I appreciated that gift.

I never expected the gift, nor did I ever attempt to expand or take the gift for granted.

Others can doubt my story, but me, and her, know
different. Which leads me to still smile, and get a hard on when I think of her.

Once she called me up, wanting to see me, and came to my home, and to my surprise, she got out of the car, with a long coat, after which I discovered that she was wearing my favorite lingerie on underneath! talk about an instant arousal to me!
If this has happened to anyone else, then you know just how special that it allows you to feel. That is what is called a once in a lifetime experience!

Something very similar to this happened to me too...  doubters gotta doubt.