Any other massage therapist out there freaking out about how they're  going to pay the bills? Ever since bp shut down I've be so slow. Ive only had 5 clients this week and they were my regulars. I finally caught on to post in the dating section just a couple of days ago but that didn't help. I just need someone to talk to .

Sorry to hear that.  We assume demand must still be there, so it is just a matter of finding the best advertising stream.  It might take some time to settle in.  

For certain ladies, not her

Yea you're right. thanks!

It will settle down at some point but who knows when.

Since I'm a visiting provider I do not have that privilege of having regulars here as you MN providers have other then couple but how many times will they come see me within the week. Not many 😒😒.... My phone use to ring off the hook (time wasters included) but it's been very quiet, a call here & there... I also tried to post in the wsm section but someone flagged my ad which is classless!!!! Thank goodness for ter & p411 (also thanks to rude providers, I got a client last night cuz the provider he contacted was  so rude to him so he moved onto the next aka me on his list).   But some other advertising venue will pop up... Unfortunately it's going to take time. Everyone is suffering so just breath & be positive..  

Thanks hun ! Be safe !

the first days after were hardest but people are figuring out how to find us. Still a little slower than usual though. Like I'm free tonight and usually saturday is pretty easy to book for me idk?

A couple of other possibilities are My Provider Guide and also A Sexy Service.

Just get on LinkedIn and start networking for another job just like anyone else when they actually lose their job. Sheesh.

I'd recommend a special. I look at some of these massage rates for 200 and it's absurd, especially if the provider doesn't even do b2b and other things to and just do a rub n tug

No one likes getting less money but that's life. Your posts and Amy other s like it feels like a sob story and free advertising. This isn't a charity and providers aren't going to give discounts 99.99% of the time because they feel bad for a hobbyist so move on and find something to supplement your income. If we brought up our income is down to our boss or friends, most would say who cares, that's life. Go do something about it

Specials.

Also you should diversify your ad campaign.  I am surprised by the number of p411 gals who don't check in every day.  Just signing in bumps your name to the top of the listings there.  The number of ads here in the ad board is small compared to the number of providers out there.  I'm sure neither of these two things bring in a zillion customers.  But they are something and really should only take a few seconds per day.  

You're always so rude for no reason at all. It's very sad

Only towards the few select providers who deserve it for various reasons. You are one in that select group, just a handful of you lol.

start posting on some other sites and see what clicks.
have you tried using the "Available Now" feature on p411?
Good luck

No I haven't tried that . thanks!

Thank you !

The rent, is too damned high!

What have I ever done to you?

I'd say make the best of their suggestions.

Here's some more, you mite want to have a regular give you a honest review so we know what's offered etc.Also price point there aren't that many fat cats to go around for a higher priced New gal, and some of the gals are way out of line. It seems the price of pussy has went up substantially over the last couple years, where most guys have the same amount of hobby money translates to less visits. GOOD LUCK

Exactly Vorlon. Good advice as usual.

Link YOUR reviews to your posts here.  

Well said! I agree totally. Mathematics do not lie. With everything else going up except for incomes you are forced to cut back on non essentials first. I suspect we are long overdue for a price correction in everything including the hobby.

I am a firm believer of when business is slow that is the best time to work on your business.  

I'll agree with this in the general way, mark down a product that isn't moving. You can always raise prices when the demand improves.

When he was banned from posting he'd PM providers who posted on the Minnesota board with his unsolicited nonsense. He can't control himself. Has nothing to do with you hun.

Wasn't banned from posting. Was busy and chose to not post as some of us have a life other than TER. Maybe you should try it.

May have been busy, but the not being allowed to post also played a part.

The problem is not with your ears but rather your mouth, spreading both truths, half-truths, and lies via Twitter and elsewhere.

Thank you !

Oldtimerb, there's a function on smart phones called a "screenshot". On the iPhone, you hit the power button and the home button at the same time and whatever is on your screen is captured as a picture. Whatever you've said, messaged, or typed is memorialized and easy to share.  

I called up a provider recently who had never answered my calls, thinking she might be more receptive under the advertising circumstances.  Sure enough, she answered my call.  Then she NCNS'd me. SMDH.

I wonder if it was one of the providers posting here...
Doubtful it's MsChambers but otherwise, it could very easily be AbbiMinx or Chanel. They both have the history of doing NCNS at least once.

I've never Ncns anyone before .

I'm not taking OTB's side on this (he Is becoming a nuisance) but why would ter admin announce that he was suspended?  I am familiar with US history but not ter history.  Has ter admin called anyone out like this in the past?  I don't think they should have confirmed that he was prohibited from posting his negativity

If you believe TER, they'll tell you they don't have moderators in MN.  

I think TER moderators have to consider what is best for their own bottom line.  If I was in TER's boots a lot of posters would get the boot for the destructive effect they have on the forum, and therefore on TER's bottom line.  This really isn't the public square and they can censor as much as they like -- whether I like it or not -- and yes, some of my posts have been yanked.

I have enjoyed the company of Abby minx and actually find her to be a lovely person and provider.

Nicely said girl!!!  

It is ok to admit to all of us that you were suspended OTB.  Everyone knows that you were.  Others have been suspended in the past and more will be in the future.  

by a sweet little Asian "post worshiper".

-- Modified on 1/23/2017 5:17:06 PM

False. Never have I NCNS anyone.  
You're butt hurt you were caught in a lie and wrote a nasty message about me that was removed.  

First lesson you should have learned before becoming a "provider".

"in the past week I've had not one but 2 clients being turned off by Mannerisms."

Thanks PGOTUS.  
   
 There's just a few things I can't stand recently about the board/TER. The biggest are the fake reviews and the bait/switch. Getting screwed pricewise these days is ridiculous, too. And when there's too much ass-kissing...  
   
 There's always been the asskissers but recently it's gotten much worse. Just a few years ago, there used to be fun posts with enjoyable topics.  
   
 Now it's what's your favorite...  
 Or "I love you Ms Provider" blah blah blah. The same names repeated endlessly by fans, the same fans.  
   
 I think when the sexy horny ladies of a few years ago retired, a lot changed. The huge influx of body rub/HJ girls (or BJ) and the way those girls were run did not help the industry either.  
   
 Plus a few years ago, the number of girls who attacked hobbyists or other providers was nowhere near what it is today. Sure there were some crazy ones lol but not like today's whiners.  
   
 There's no way I'm anywhere close to the assholes of some of the famous dicks that have been here on TER.  
   
 Just my $0.02 worth.

Thanks PGOTUS.  
   
 There's just a few things I can't stand recently about the board/TER. The biggest are the fake reviews and the bait/switch. Getting screwed pricewise these days is ridiculous, too. And when there's too much ass-kissing...  
   
 There's always been the asskissers but recently it's gotten much worse. Just a few years ago, there used to be fun posts with enjoyable topics.  
   
 Now it's what's your favorite...  
 Or "I love you Ms Provider" blah blah blah. The same names repeated endlessly by fans, the same fans.  
   
 I think when a few very sexy, horny, and wise ladies retired in the last few years, a lot changed. The huge influx of body rub/HJ girls (or BJ) and the way those girls were run did not help the industry either.  
   
 Plus a few years ago, the number of girls who attacked hobbyists or other providers was nowhere near what it is today. Sure there were some crazy ones lol but not like today's whiners.  
   
 There's no way I'm anywhere close to the assholes of some of the famous dicks that have been here on TER.  
   
 Just my $0.02 worth.

It's no one who posts here.  She's a BP girl with decent reviews.  Shit, if I had more spending money, I'd give Abbi a try.

Referring to other...  

I suppose I am reticent, but I thought it was common to keep mum about other providers/clients during a session. Or maybe generalized comments don't count.

I don't see why there would be a concern over generalized comments.  And if it's not something you want to discuss during a session, simply change the subject.

With the demise of BP MN needs a healthy board where ladies aren't afraid to post.  Anything done to make this board nicer are welcome. This is a community and only the admins can effectively police it. I'd like to see more negative posters banned, they usually add nothing but spite and hatred to some threads.